just some strange feelings. felt a bit of alone nd empty
want2liv
wow. where r u from?
Abraham
am from Kerala u?
Abraham
wht kinda feelings?
want2liv
Uttar Pradesh
Abraham
u are not alone we ol re wid u
want2liv
1
don't what to talk about the things happening just want some to b with me nd sit silently or just stay by my side
want2liv
1
thnks. gud to hear that
Abraham
sure... am wid u
Abraham
temme abt ur day?
Abraham
wht re u doin
Abraham
u can talk to me whenever u feel lonely
want2liv
not a good one. got misjudged again nd cried over it abit. wanted to talk bt don't have anyone to listen. totally hopeless
want2liv
glad for that buddy
heisenburg666
hey don't worry nah @abraham don't say it
Abraham
If u want to talk about it, just tell me, I'm ready to listen
want2liv
1
I'm just sad. I try alot to make things better nd do anything as far as I can bt even at a slight deal in things people start judging nd it all makes me feel like all the efforts made by me have gone in vain
want2liv
1
I'm just tired. it all feels like a burden to go nd talk to them about how I feel. just want to lay in the darkness
heisenburg666
ignore others they like judging other just be yourself and everything will be fine those who stays are your real friends
Abraham
If we proceed by listening to the judgments of others, we will not be able to do anything better. If we don't care what others say and believe in our efforts, it will definitely lead us to success.
heisenburg666
@abraham my man
want2liv
1
thnks @abraham nd @hrisenburg666 got a bit of relief
Abraham
We need to have faith in ourselves first and not allow others to make us mentally weak. be strong be confident
want2liv
sometimes I just feel that may b i need someone to listen nd when I reach out for someone that one don't try to ask or listen. it makes me feel like may b I'm better alone or i don't feel like sharing anything
Abraham
If we do not believe in ourselves, others can easily destroy our efforts!you can talk to me whenever you feel lonely
heisenburg666
@heisenburg._.666 feel free to text me on insta @abraham no I don't have such intention
want2liv
1
we both don't know each other bt i feel alot of light nd calm. thnks for ur wrds
Abraham
When you feel you need to talk about your things, just post here and I will definitely be here to listen to your problems.
itadori
lol
want2liv
will surely post if want to talk
Abraham
okay then, go and have ur dinner π€
want2liv
yes. gud night βΊοΈ
Abraham
hope u re okay now, good night have a happy sleep tc!
want2liv
u here? @abraham
Abraham
yeah temme
want2liv
down again. work related stuff
Abraham
temme abt ur stress
Abraham
open up
Abraham
gone?
want2liv
have been in lot of stress
want2liv
no. here
Abraham
temme one by one
want2liv
unable to focus on my work. doing lots of mistakes even if I try not to
Abraham
whts ur profession
Abraham
wht kinda wrk u re doin
want2liv
just a small business of my own of clithing
heisenburg666
it requires good concentration
want2liv
*clothing
heisenburg666
so focus on it distractions will disappear
heisenburg666
don't worey
heisenburg666
worryZ
want2liv
I know. even if a try not to make mistakes nd make sure everything is perfect, something just comes up
Abraham
wht distract u frm business
want2liv
it all makes me wanted to quit
Abraham
are u a beginner
want2liv
things r not going gud with my family as well as in my relationship. I just feel tired all the time. just wanted to quit or run away
want2liv
no.i have been doing this work since 4 years
Abraham
thn the prblm is wid ur living conditions
want2liv
what?
Abraham
It is because you are suffering from a lot of mental stress right now that you cannot take care of business seriously
Abraham
you feel like taking a break?
want2liv
I'm just unable to cope up.whenever things get better nd I felt a bit of gud suddenly conditions gets worse
want2liv
yes, want to just quit everything nd b there in peace for sometime bt unable to do so
Abraham
What will you lose if you take a break in the current situation?
want2liv
May b i have start from the beginning nd also I can't go out somewhere
Abraham
I think you need some rest. It will be good for you if you can relax by doing things that make you happy for a few days
Abraham
Can you forget everything and relax for three days?
want2liv
I can take a off from my work bt how can I take a off from my family nd relationship
heisenburg666
well she's got a point there
Abraham
what's the problem you are facing in your relationship
want2liv
I felt down nd dull most of the tym wanted to talk bt he didn't notice this also he is busy most of the time
Abraham
Have you discussed this openly with him?
want2liv
also we r having a lot of arguments nd fights.he don't have time to spent together
want2liv
I need time to open up nd talk bt he doesn't have that
Abraham
Is it because any of his situations have changed?
want2liv
May b bcoz he is struggling financially
want2liv
still he spents alot of time with his friends
Abraham
If so, it is not a good!
want2liv
I'm just fed up don't know how to handle all this
Abraham
tell him you want to talk abt something seriously.
want2liv
don't know how to talk directly about my family issues. I'm hesitated don't know if he will b able understand it or not
Abraham
Both of you should try equally to move the relationship forward. If he tries to avoid you, you should definitely recognize it. you should have the courage to end such a relationship. It doesn't make sense for only one person to be sincere. If this is the situation now, then it will be a lot of struggle to live together in the life ahead.
Abraham
It is better for our future to eliminate things from our lives that drive us mentally ill.
want2liv
I will try to talk to him about the things. will discuss about how I feel nd things r going on. hope so he has time for me to listen
want2liv
thnks again for listening nd giving helpful advices.
Abraham
yeah... try ur best nd dnt hesitate to openup things
want2liv
sureβΊοΈ
Abraham
thn temme abt the family prblm
want2liv
r u up for sometime? going to have dinner
Abraham
go nd have i ll wait!
want2liv
thnks
Abraham
π€π€
want2liv
hey @abraham
Abraham
hey
want2liv
1
I don't felt like eating by had i great dinner thnks to u for making me feel gud
Abraham
If we open up the problem in our mind to someone, we will surely get relief.
want2liv
bt it just kinda feel weird just some things r like unsettling inside me
Abraham
Tell me what it is
want2liv
after these repeated cycles of situations getting better nd then going back to worse r just making me worry that may b things will get worse again
Abraham
We cannot control the course of time. Whatever we do, it just moves in its flow. There is nothing to be worried about, and first remove from your mind the superstition that sadness will follow happiness.
want2liv
It feels like i just have to go out for some peace as this thought always comes to my mind when my feelings gets complicated bt don't have any way
Abraham
What we believe in our mind will happen in our life, so try to avoid negative thoughts as much as possible and approach things positively.
Abraham
it will make a huge change
want2liv
I have been through this phase 5 years ago bt this time it's breaking me I always have the positive thought of what happens is for my gud as somehow i was wrong bt I'm unable to handle this now as I have given my best nd there is no fault of mine. after such efforts why things r getting bad nd why people don't understand me. it's just chokes me all the tym
Abraham
I think you are wasting a lot time by over thinking
want2liv
π
Abraham
Be a little more practical and approach things
want2liv
will try to give my best nd hold onto the things
Abraham
don't try to hold things just release... and realize
want2liv
1
btw Kerala is a beautiful place I have heard hope to visit once in my life
Abraham
always welcome
want2liv
I will just let how things r nd b myself n try to think about the positive side only
Abraham
positively find out the negative sides too
want2liv
πthnks again. u gave alot of strength nd energy to face things nd all the things that r going on
want2liv
sure may b the bad things r fir my gud only that's my perspective back then will try this again
Abraham
Forget all problems for three days... explore
want2liv
how r u doing?
Abraham
I know it's not easy to forget, but don't let that affect you.
want2liv
don't think it's been a great time to explore now as festival is coming nd then exams. got lot of stuff to do
Abraham
am okay and i just want to make u too
Abraham
explore ur inner happiness
want2liv
u have already made me feel gud alot
Abraham
If you can stay happy for three days, you will definitely be able to survive the current crisis.
Abraham
If we have peace in our mind we can do everything faster and better.
want2liv
thnks a lot of listening nd helping nd giving so much hopeful words. I will surely have patience nd try to b happy with myself nd will not let myself down for whomsoever I'm. the things r going this way only for my gud nd thnks to u for making me realise that again. I will have patience nd try my fullest to tackle any problem now on. thnks for making my day. hope u also have great days ahead nd will give ur best to ur lifeβΊοΈ
Abraham
I hope you sleep peacefully today! Good luck!!
want2liv
u too sleep well
Abraham
okay, whenever you feel lonely you can come and post here, I will be here from 8 pm.
want2liv
1
ohk.thnks for ur support. I'll also b there if u want to talk about anything anytime