im unable to end a connection though im being devalued and ignored at most of the times and things not getting smooth even after conversation

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farshy756 · Answer

do they ignore you intentionally?

blissfulpaella5 · Answer

i dont know

farshy756 · Answer

what do you mean by 'things not getting smooth even after conversation'?

blissfulpaella5 · Answer

i have talked about it with him many a times to sort out this and every time he says he is sorry and will rectify himself. after 2 days same things happen. my texts go unseen , late replies even when he is online for hours .. its a long distance relationship...he left this place 5 months back

farshy756 · Answer

is their anything else he does which makes you sad?

blissfulpaella5 · Answer

ignores me , lack of affection and communiction and not taking our relation to next step... he was not like this before.  he does not care if im disturbed, awake, sad , upset , waiting for him or missing him

farshy756 · Answer

since when he has been acting like this?

blissfulpaella5 · Answer

i felt him bit changed a month prior to his leave and then with time it has increased

farshy756 · Answer

what he talks about in the recent conversations you both had?

blissfulpaella5 · Answer

he did not text for almost 2 days and then today morning he texted that he is going to USA for 3 days .. i wished him safe travels and asked him to text me when reached. he was remained online for hours since my last text and replied me after 3 hours that he is reached and shared his number

farshy756 · Answer

has he ever done it before like not replying to ur messages.

blissfulpaella5 · Answer

yes some times he does not reply and some times he reply after many hours or next day or even later

farshy756 · Answer

is he a text person, or he prefers to call or meet up?

blissfulpaella5 · Answer

text... he used to text me all the times and occasionaly we used to meet and phone calls very rarely

farshy756 · Answer

was he in constant stress about his work?

blissfulpaella5 · Answer

no he is going out with friends and chilling as usual

farshy756 · Answer

the last you confronted him about his behaviour, what was his first reaction? did he take the blame or went in  defencive position?

blissfulpaella5 · Answer

he went defencive by saying there were network issues so he could not reply to my messages , later on he accepted it and said he is sorry and will rectify himself

farshy756 · Answer

I would suggest you to not text him for a couple days and then see what happens. if he is affected by it or not.

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?