I think my partner is suffering from NPD, he is constantly abusing me, torturing me, have also been physically violent towards me. But everytime he says sorry, won't happen again, still repeats the same thing after 5 days or a week. This pattern has continued 5 times

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lovesickporpoise2 · Answer

dude that's serious matter I felt

lovesickporpoise2 · Answer

u want to be with him.lr u want to move on

lovesickporpoise2 · Answer

u want to talk about it?

solidhawk0 · Answer

I do love him, a lot, but he can't see the faults, i have even tried to explain. He also puts the blame on me that i have borderline personality disorder.

Recovering_babe · Answer

takes courage to say it out loud. huge support to you. physical abuse or mental abuse is not a normal thing. both for the abuser and the victim. you do realize that you're a victim in this case right?!

solidhawk0 · Answer

he always twists facts and make me the villan, he has cheated on me and when I confronted him, he said think that you could not keep me happy that's why he felt the need to cheat

Recovering_babe · Answer

the abuser plays the victim and gives you the feel that you went wrong. you have to stay strong and remind yourself that you are the victim, you are not at fault. if and when you're mentally  financially ready, think about getting out of this situation if it doesn't change.

solidhawk0 · Answer

yes, you are right, but it's so difficult to keep sane and believe in myself. he slut shames me calls me names, treats me as a sex object

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

hello

Frustrating