thank God i am not the only one with whom such things happen...
excludedfolk1099
@Shivang may be you are right..it's all about vibe n all but it's also right ki quite people gets ignored or overlooked a lot🥲
excludedfolk1099
@Overhuman 🫂🫂
aloofshads6
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literally the same thing has been happening with me these days. and my friends don't really take a solid stand to include me. it makes me realize that without me the conversation won't be impacted in any way shape or form.
excludedfolk1099
@aloofshads6 Couldn't agree with you more seriously..it feels so weird as if I'm not important or something.
aloofshads6
I do get you. there might be special people you expect will take a stand for you and talk directly to you about something you can relate to and they don't and you aes ready to do that for them. that hurts me. you don't need an army of people to feel Unincluded, you can feel that with just 2 other people or just with a single person. that's a bitter truth.
excludedfolk1099
@aloofshads6 You are speaking my mind out..i felt so stuffed before but now I'm feeling somewhat releived..Thank you 🙏 Atleast there is someone who is aknowlegding my issues..
aloofshads6
you made my day by saying that. I'm glad I could be of some help. so do those people have internal (private) jokes, stories and experiences they talk about and you have no idea what they're talking about and you're left asking about what are they talking about. do you see people as introvert (or maybe less or more) as you, make their way into the conversation because someone takes stand for them and not you.
excludedfolk1099
@aloofshads6 Yess Everytime it is now..they do behave like that..
aloofshads6
so why do you feel it's happening? is it something about you or they're just toxic self centered people.
excludedfolk1099
@aloofshads tbh i don't even know why the heck they behave like that to me...they keep telling me that since I'm not that talkative or quite I'm very boring n stuff that's why people are not interested in talking to me but that's not true i do talk to people nicely it's just that I'm a bit quite..and i like to be in my peace..
aloofshads6
I have the same experience. so how do you deal with it or thinking about dealing with it plus what's your ideal scenario. my ideal scenario would be that I wanna hang out in large groups but I wan one or two or three people who are my people no matter how less I talk, I always know that if at any moment I decide to get up and leave, they'll follow.
excludedfolk1099
@aloofshads6 i don't want to have many friends but atleast i want to have that 1 or 2 friends who will understand me and accept me the way i am and not calling me boring n stuff..but i think i haven't found anyone like that...i highly doubt i ever will tho🥲
aloofshads6
be friends with me. I too need people like that in my life.
