accept the truth that he is not there wid u....he was ur past n u hv a bright n happy future ahead without him....he has dat much part to play in ur life....it will take time but tell urself this everytime whenever ur mind thinks about him.... everything will be normal in somedays
@deep_thinker, @inadilema- I've tried. It is particularly hard when I can practically see/hear him everyday. He seems so happy, always laughing and singing about. He was so into me, I'm unable to accept that he is doing fine without me
you also pretend to be happy without him...... atleast before him. m nt saying it's easy to forget about him...but u hv to try..... listen to positive affirmations and tell urself loudly everyday after waking up that u don't need him and u r happy without him. it will help you a lot
I'll try. I'm actually trying but everytime I see him it I take a step back and get lonely and sad. Idk if I'll succeed but I'm trying, yes
u will succeed.....i also gone through this..... whenever I tried to be with myself my bf came back to me and his one msg or call n i used to fall for him and again after 2-3 days he used to annoy and stops talking......then I tried listening to positive affirmations before sleeping and after waking up i told my self m nt depending on him for my happiness.....i don't need him etc....and now m feeling better than before....
Same thing is happening with me.. We stop talking and then we talk and fight and the cycle continues. The worst part is being neighbours and seeing/hearing each other every freaking minute of the day. This is hell
hmm I knw...... still m in touch with my bf...... he fights with me for no reason.....he himself thinks something about me in his mind and stops talking to me....we r in a long distance relationship and i can't see his last seen in wp, insta......i can't call him also. for last 2 yrs i was going through hell....he has hurted me in every possible and worst way..... n if I stops talking then he is telling u r not having feelings for me....but not understanding that he only made me this type of person..... before I used to cry everyday....now I hv learnt how to keep myself detached from him....how to console myself. means in a month we might be talking hardly for half an hour in total......so....now I have told to myself that m only responsible for my happiness....i don't need him...... i am powerful n strong....etc....n this is helping me now after practicing for long
I got so used to my ex's undivided attention. He made me believe that I'm the only girl in his life since 2014 that he has truly loved. Now I'm not able to accept that he is no longer calling me or wanting to talk to me or be with me.
Also I keep worrying if he is talking to some other girl coz only then would he have been able to stop pursuing me
from 2014 to 2022 is a long time...... release urself from his thoughts.......bcz it's not him.....it's you who is doing wrong with urself. If he's not talking with you then you make friends.....give urself time..... stay happy....else these fear and negative thoughts will affect your health also.
You're right. Trying to ignore his constant physical presence. Maybe not today but someday I'll get over him
it's very difficult to see ur love with someone else. I have gone through this as my bf is married and i have kept a pic of his marriage with his wife n now he's also going to have a child.... n each day i am trying to accept this. i also don't wanna curse him bcz i believe it might be my karma.....yes.... sometimes I scold him for doing these things with me.....but I can't change the past.....so...m continuously in process of detaching myself from him and his thoughts..... so,u also try this. talk to urself or write down some positive n powerful affirmations before sleeping. it's helping me a lot.
Thanks for being patient. I hope you'll find someone worthy of your love soon! It's hard for us all but I'm sure we make progress with time
if you want then I can tell you the affirmation video which I am listening every night before sleeping
don't know how to share the youtube link over here......so m typing it. "affirmations before sleep, I AM sleep affirmations for success, confidence, wealth, love