Yes which is why I personally believe that the only responsibility we have is to look after yourself
stressedspringboy
But that's what makes us stronger too
Vai
See, it's not like what u think .. This is a phase, everything has a different point of view which many a times we can't even think or understand .. Just keep doing good n do ur good work n trust God .. we are God's kids, they always do good for us
Vai
Love others, it's important but loving oneself is also important
stressedspringboy
That is the reason for this app that people around us have different priorities
clarke34
how can we love ourself when everyone rejects us
stressedspringboy
But the only one who lives with you is yourself
Berniexxx
and I am failing seriously.
stressedspringboy
How can we measure ourselves from other's eyes when you have your own perspective
stressedspringboy
So what if people call a failure today successful people always say that it was this struggle which helped them out immensly
stressedspringboy
Clarke you do know that you can do what you want so why wait for everyone's approval
stressedspringboy
Bernie I read your post but the only thing I can tell you is if you let fear and sadness take over yourself you will regret it
stressedspringboy
@Bernie I have never been in a relationship before but I have lived in fear and that is something I seriously regret
Vai
see loving oneself starts from within, they are rejecting but y aren't u accepting yourself .. u r rejecting ur own opinion when it comes to others .. others opinion for should be considered n given importance if u r doing something harmful or crime level pe sort of ..apart from the provided concern, for ur personal things that are good u need to accept urself u must not go according to others .. u can try n become a better version of urself
clarke34
hey stressedsprinboy do you think we are robots we are humans how long can someone tell theirself to not take others opinions and others bias towards ourselves seriously you can ignore that for some duration but is there any permanent solution
stressedspringboy
Clarke and what exactly is others opinion worth
stressedspringboy
I am not asking to not listen
stressedspringboy
But I am asking you not what others say you are
stressedspringboy
So please don't take it as aggressive
stressedspringboy
These conversations are quite personal
stressedspringboy
Hey Clarke wanna chat on social media?
stressedspringboy
really would like to know you better
clarke34
heyy sorry if i sound aggressive i was just saying the truth
stressedspringboy
Truth is I have lived my life like this too and it makes me resentful of others
stressedspringboy
I had close friends of mine but my father kept getting transferred and so I would have no contact with them anymore
stressedspringboy
And yeah people don't care about you but only because they themselves have their demons to battle
stressedspringboy
I am not saying they are justified rather just asking to give them time to mature
stressedspringboy
Trust me you will come across bad apples but ultimately it'll be worth for you will make genuine friendships
stressedspringboy
So yes people are pre occupied creating their own demise but sometimes it is out of good intentions
