is it ok to adjust when boyfriend tells he is busy and sends only 2 to 3 Msgs per day...

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winterpanda · Answer

it depends where he is busy !

obsessedtortoise4 · Answer

he says work all the time at first he is used to spend lot of time now not at all I don't think someone will be busy for 24 hrs if he is really interested in talking to me he would have texted that's what I feel is this correct?

winterpanda · Answer

if he is busy then it's ok..... but no body in busy 24/7.... they get lots of opportunities to buy time for you... but if they are not able to be there for you, then you should talk to your partner about this.

obsessedtortoise4 · Answer

he says not to keep expectations i love him lot so I'm bearing him and I beg him make small fights and again I say sorry all these I do bcz I want him to talk to me atleast for sometime

obsessedtortoise4 · Answer

I told him ok if u don't talk when u r busy but after that one msg with affection can make be happy but he normally texts gdmrng gdnyt I told him but he still repeats the same

winterpanda · Answer

if you are in any sort relationship.... you will have expectations.... consciously or unconsciously... so it's just a nonsense thing to say that you can't have expectation for me

winterpanda · Answer

and no one is that much busy in their life that they can't show affection in their good mornings and good nights msg

obsessedtortoise4 · Answer

yes he is ok if I don't talk for 2 days even not even single msg but I wait every second for his msg this is hurting me a lot

obsessedtortoise4 · Answer

he enjoys with friends watches movies says they might think something If he keeps on checking mobile so only when he is alone he can text or call

winterpanda · Answer

if he have time for everything then.... may be you are not his priority.

winterpanda · Answer

if he wants to find time for you then he will find it any how....

obsessedtortoise4 · Answer

but I love him...that is my problem really I feel like I'm in hell with his behaviour

winterpanda · Answer

you should talk to him.... plus.. give him little threat.. that if you don't behave, then I'll leave you............. may be, the thought of loosing you will make him aware about what he is doing.

obsessedtortoise4 · Answer

ok I will tell him the same mostly he says ur wish I think and later I will fight for that how can u say like that and he says I know u can't leave me he is overconfident that whatever he does I don't leave him..but I wish I could leave him for few days but I can't 😭

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