Acceptance of reality

Question

how to accept the reality that one of my office BFF ( very close) is not going to be there anymore after 15 days as while working with him, how did last one year passed, didn't know. But as he switched, now days will not be same anymore. But why mind is resisting on accepting the reality ...is it maybe I had find no friend like him previously before even if in school or college...so I never experienced what it feels when someone leaves

loukeoc · Answer

he's in a better place now. its hard to accept it bas its the truth. you're going to move on. and moving on doesnt mean forgetting. this person will always be special to you. but we have to let life move on. its going to be okay.

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

yes I know...it's just I everyday made my mind but next day morning, again I go through the same emotions... sometime tears come out naturally just by thinking that how a person like him ( highly confident, a big helper of everyone, motivational etc.) become friends with me who is boring, low on self confidence and esteem.... sometimes I think I doesn't deserve someone like him .. don't know why .. . some days it gets very emotional

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?