Stresseslemur5, could you tell me a bit about your marriage? Do you feel you have a good, stong relationship? Or are there some serious issues (apart from this)?

Yes I have a strong relationship..all goes very well..but when it comes to this women matter I always feel that he likes chatting with random women..he says that it's fun and he enjoys chatting with them...even at night when he is away for work purpose he texts her and even save her watsapp pics in his phone.. all this makes me very uncomfortable..I knw dat obviously he wont sleep over with her..but the thing that triggers me the most is dat if there is no such feeling between the two of them then why do they secretly chat and exchange photographs

So can it be said that what bothers you is not that he chata with them, but that he does so secretly, as if trying to hide it from you?

Ya. Chatting with her too brothers me...I dnt find it cool that after marriage u hve ryt to do all this just for fun. It really hurts me. Coz if I dint chat with anyone then I expect the same from my partner too

That's quite a tough situation you are in. It seems like this is very important for you. If I may ask, you mentioned that his actions really hurt you. What do they signify? In other words when he does this, what do you think it says about you and your relationship?