anxiety

Question

I just feel some kind of burden ...I can't really place what..its just like an accumulation of issues and insecurity....I want to change my circle of friends but I don't want to get to attached to anyone like in terms of dependence as it really hits me hard when I don't get attention from my friends ..I'm scared of opening up to people..like they won't like me afterwards....I have a friend that knows me a bit but each time it's like I'm trying to prove myself to her and like she doesn't value me of which I have told her frequently but she claims I'm wrong and I'm sure of my observation...i need space at the same time I feel lonely most times and scared I might end up with no friends that truly care about me

killerhealth · Answer

I Think you should talk about your insecurities and take your own time to be comfortable.

somberLard5 · Answer

Hey, you might think people don't get into your shoes or understand your situation. But I have gone through the same thing as you did. You don't have to prove or change yourself for anyone. Be yourself. People who don't value you, they are being very egoistic. You need to find new friends. You need to keep a mindset that you can find one good friend that understands and cares for you. You might feel scared. But in the verge of finding one time, don't share all your problem to them. Let them text you and miss your presence as a friend. If you have a friend that doesn't value. Why are you still having her as a friend. Your mental health is important dear. Not negative vibe friends. If you feel lonely. You can have me as your partner or friend. I can try my very best to keep you happy all the time. Much love for you. Hope you're alright

smiley_ · Answer

thanks allot somberlard5... I'll love to be your friend 😩

smiley_ · Answer

thanks allot killerhealth

hello

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?