I had sex for the first time with my girlfriend recently and I got very anxious. I couldn't last long because of it either and it made things awkward as well. I had been thinking about it for so long that when it came to actually doing it I got very nervous. I want to talk about it with my gf but I don't know how to approach the situation without seeming like I'm covering up for my lack in performance. I wonder if she might not love me because of it anymore.