till he doesn't say u anything....don't get stressed about him....but if you have feelings for him...then try talking with him...u will know a lot about him
guiltystork0
i don't know if i like him or not or it's because he's looking at me that why i look at him and like him
guiltystork0
or maybe he doesn't like me
peaky04
there's only one way to find out right?
peaky04
try to talk to him
guiltystork0
how can i just
perceus12galactus
find any similarity u have...
peaky04
1
you can try talking casually
peaky04
like laughing on a joke or try to start a convo
zestyhawk40
1
just say hi hello if u see eachother frequently
perceus12galactus
common class, society, parents are friends,same wing...etc
guiltystork0
we are not friends
guiltystork0
we just like in the same society that's all and
peaky04
okay
guiltystork0
but we have eye contact like every day
peaky04
so try to talk abt smtg
guiltystork0
i can't just talk like that I'm not that type of girl I'm introvert
peaky04
okayy
perceus12galactus
I hope u aren't a child and ur parents are conservative
peaky04
do you have friends in common?
peaky04
if yes then try to hangout with them
guiltystork0
and we are going to move to another society in some months
guiltystork0
ohhh come on @ perceus I'm 22
perceus12galactus
don't worry.....u will get topics to talk or wait a bit....he will come and talk .....it takes time
guiltystork0
we are not kid's
peaky04
1
i would say try to get his Instagram I'd and start talking online
peaky04
so that you'll get comfortable and then you'll be able to open up more
guiltystork0
but what if it's just my thinking and he doesn't like me
perceus12galactus
π then surely u should try talking about starting from what u both do ...etc...I think a festival would give u an opportunity to talk with the person
perceus12galactus
that's why u need to talk..to know if he likes u or not
peaky04
yes it can be your thinking but there's one way to find out
guiltystork0
and i know that way I'll never go because I don't have an confidence and strength to ask someone like hey do you like me
guiltystork0
I'll never
peaky04
you don't start a convo like hey do you like me π , try to make a connection
peaky04
connection in the sense , small talks , hey how are you? what are you doing
guiltystork0
π€π€
guiltystork0
but that's what I'm saying i have no experience of it
peaky04
okay, i said earlier like stalk him on Instagram, try to talk there
guiltystork0
you know I'm a type of a girl who don't approach first and that why i guess I'm single all my life
peaky04
so that you'll be able to talk , as you said you are introvert and don't prefer to talk at beginning
peaky04
yes , but somewhere you need to take the first step
peaky04
π π ππ
guiltystork0
why he can all so right if he likes me
peaky04
see we don't know that thing yet, if he likes you , you'll get the vibes right when you start convo. but if he doesn't like you then too you'll get the vibe of him not want to get involved
guiltystork0
and then some were i feel like i should just Stop looking at him but it's just happened unintentionally
peaky04
it's okay to feel that way
guiltystork0
i feel like i should just stop thinking about him
peaky04
yes you feel that but you are not able to stop right? so do one thing approach him in a simple manner
peaky04
and don't ask smtg related to relationship or love anything like that
peaky04
ππ
peaky04
just start the convo and be casual
guiltystork0
but how
peaky04
like I said try to connect online
peaky04
Instagram, Snapchat
guiltystork0
and i don't want to live in any misunderstanding
guiltystork0
what he has a girlfriend or anything like
peaky04
yes but until you contact him you'll not be able to get a clear idea
peaky04
or ask his friend.
peaky04
a friend of his who's in contact with you or your friends
guiltystork0
no one is in contact with me i hardly talk to anyone in my society
peaky04
ohh
peaky04
so you are not a social guy
peaky04
then I would say is to either contact him online or talk with him face to face , f2f will be hard but still worth a try, as you need to find out if he likes you or not
guiltystork0
I'm a girl bro
peaky04
okayy the way I meant guy is no biased π inshort irrespective of gender
guiltystork0
but still
peaky04
okay my Apologies π
guiltystork0
it's ok
guiltystork0
i feel like i should just Stop you know
peaky04
why?
peaky04
about feeling for him?
guiltystork0
Yes thinking about him like if he likes me or something like that and even look at him
peaky04
okay if you feel that way then you can put an end to it
peaky04
but is he a nice guy or you just know him by seeing him everyday
guiltystork0
actually i personally don't know him but i Heard bad things about him and even seen it like drinking alcohol and fight and all
guiltystork0
and he doesn't have well paid job i guess he's doing a job but not High paid
guiltystork0
it's just you know aakho hi aakho me types π€
peaky04
so what do you think is it good to get involved or not?
guiltystork0
i don't know
peaky04
yeah I can understand the rush , I am a boy myself so I know how it feels from the other side
peaky04
what do you feel from inside that's imp. If you want to get involved in a relationship give it a try , but I'll just say try it with a good personality boy , not the other types because it ends in a wrong way
peaky04
I know it's shocking to hear from a boy but this is a fact . And I have observed this as one of my close friend has undergone a relationship where she was a introvert type girl and the boy was a Playboy to be honest, and it ended up her being pregnant and him leaving her to hang out to dry
guiltystork0
i can understand
guiltystork0
so can you please give me some good advice for thia
guiltystork0
this*
peaky04
okay
peaky04
i can give a advice
peaky04
look if the boy is not good in nature then avoid him,and if he is good in nature then. give it a try
peaky04
that's the simple and sober advice i would give
guiltystork0
I'll try to walk in your advice
guiltystork0
thanks
peaky04
yes , it's my pleasure to help
peaky04
and be firm on what ever decision you take in future regarding this
guiltystork0
yeah but still this one question is in my head stuck
peaky04
what?
peaky04
which question? regarding this topic only
guiltystork0
yeah
peaky04
yes but which question?
guiltystork0
this thing the eyes think about i kind of like him so i have to forget my feelings for him
peaky04
yes , but if you feel that too much then try to contact him and see how his nature is then you can decide whether to go or put a red flagπ
guiltystork0
πi don't know how you are but you are making me smile
peaky04
okay that's a good compliment that I have received in many daysπ π
guiltystork0
welcome
guiltystork0
but for real i found him very attractive that why you know
peaky04
do what you feel , at last what we feel that matter but don't get emotionally too strong that you won't be able to see the truth and still get into it
guiltystork0
yeah i will
guiltystork0
but feel like there's no future
peaky04
okayy if you feel like that then it's true
peaky04
messaging here so hardππ it doesn't load for few seconds and the app crashes many times
guiltystork0
ππ
guiltystork0
I'm sorry if you get bored of hearing me
peaky04
nope I'm not bored, but whenever a new message gets here I have to refresh the whole app π
peaky04
actually I have exam tomorrow but I'm not able to concentrate and studyππ
guiltystork0
ok you go and study sorry for bothering you
peaky04
nope ntg like bothering me π I have studied the whole day and now I'm not able to study so I'll study tomorrow morning anyway
peaky04
and it's an engineering exam so no worries I'll write something meaningful that will fetch me 60-70% marks atleast
guiltystork0
ππ
guiltystork0
how old are you?
peaky04
I'm 22 completed 23 running
guiltystork0
ohh same
peaky04
wbu?
peaky04
okayy great ππ
guiltystork0
are you a boy or girl?
peaky04
Boy π π
peaky04
didn't you read the earlier texts
guiltystork0
just confirming you know π€π€
peaky04
where I mentioned that I'm a boy π this app gave me girls emoji idk why π
peaky04
girls profile pic* not emoji
guiltystork0
and too me a boys one
peaky04
yeah ππ
peaky04
wanna connect on telegram? only if you are comfortable
guiltystork0
sorry but I'm not comfortable we can talk here it's good talking with you though
guiltystork0
we will talk here
peaky04
no problem if you are not comfortable then it's okay
guiltystork0
thanks for understanding
guiltystork0
btw where are you from?
peaky04
I'm from pune wbu?
peaky04
Maharashtra*
guiltystork0
ohh nice
guiltystork0
I'm from Gujarat
peaky04
ohh great
peaky04
kem choπ i only knw this much of gujrati
peaky04
ohh one more Maja ma π
guiltystork0
majama πππ
guiltystork0
yeah π good
guiltystork0
sorry but I don't know Marathi soo
peaky04
it's okay , many people don't know Marathi But when you say Kem cho in gujrati we say (kashe aahet ) in marathi
peaky04
it's similar to kemcho
guiltystork0
ohhh ok
guiltystork0
kashe aahetπ€π€
peaky04
yup something like that
guiltystork0
ππ
peaky04
yeahππ
peaky04
does this chats get auto deleted after specific period of time?
guiltystork0
no why?
peaky04
just asking , i don't know abt the app much
guiltystork0
ohh you are new here?
peaky04
yeah , new means itna bhi new nahi hun ππ
guiltystork0
ohh ok
peaky04
yes
guiltystork0
1
you know what we just a final our new house and we are going to move to another society
guiltystork0
so I'll not be able to see him now and maybe i forget him
peaky04
ohh that's a great news , congratulations ππ
guiltystork0
thanks
peaky04
1
yeah that's good, when you'll not see him , eventually you'll be able to forget him
guiltystork0
yeah
guiltystork0
this app is not working good don't know why
peaky04
yes , i encountered the same problem today
guiltystork0
yeah
guiltystork0
i have to refresh it every time
peaky04
yes I am facing that problem from 2-3 days , that's what I said yesterday to you about how I have to refresh to see a new message π
guiltystork0
yeah π€£π€£
guiltystork0
btw how was your exam today?
peaky04
oh you remembered, it was good though attempted the whole 30 marks paper , i think I'll be able to get 23+
guiltystork0
good π
guiltystork0
i all so have my exam from 5 of April like day after tomorrow
peaky04
yes I was worried about paper today but it ended up being easy and scoring
peaky04
okayy what do you study?
guiltystork0
good
guiltystork0
I'm doing m.com final semester
peaky04
great π so are you preparing for CA?
guiltystork0
naah man
peaky04
why?
guiltystork0
I'm doing a job as well so I'll think about further study but not CA I'm not that smart
guiltystork0
like CA students don't have a life they just have to study and i can't do that