hey what happened, don't think that way, share ur problem with us, we will try to help you
unhappytomatoe0
Why? Have you harm yourself before?
angelkitty4
I am tried of my problem
Vai
what problem?
angelkitty4
I have many problems
angelkitty4
I want to end myself
angelkitty4
my all problem will be solved after that
unhappytomatoe0
It's ok getting tired of our problem, suicide may be the easiest path, but trust me, it's not recommend
unhappytomatoe0
You don't need to solve your problem, just face them slowly
Vai
please try sharing, we will listen n we are with u
unhappytomatoe0
No need to rush, cause this is life
angelkitty4
I am very weak girl .I am mentally tired
Vai
u are not weak dear, don't think that way, we are here there with u to talk
humoroustortoise7
suicide won't solve your any problem...you may feel down at this moment but it just a phase it will pass ... problems are just like the visitors they won't stay forever with you.
unhappytomatoe0
Feeling tired, weak, stress is what human feel when we feel like we can't face what im front of us.
unhappytomatoe0
Don't be afraid to stand out of your confront zone, I know it's hard, but trust me, it's going to be worth it
angelkitty4
no
humoroustortoise7
no need to face it if you can't just accept the fact that and it's like jo hoga dekha jayega and continue with other work which makes you happy or atleast ease your mind
angelkitty4
I fight with my problem last 5 years
angelkitty4
but it not solved
unhappytomatoe0
At least, first, try to ease your mind
angelkitty4
God also not help me
Vai
even I was fighting with a problem past 5 years, even I had lost hope, but I came out of it by Maa Saptashrungi ki kripa, I almost had lost hope but things improved and got solved
humoroustortoise7
if you are comfortable than can you share with us so we can atleast try to help you or make it better
Vai
I had religious OCD in which continuous repititve thoughts used to come like they can't be controlled kind of and it used to.make me feel.disgusted and uncomfortable
unhappytomatoe0
Please don't do it, life on earth is just temporary, you shouldn't fill it with sadness
Vai
but after 5 years or more, I am out of it to a very large extent
angelkitty4
I tried many things for my mental health but things help me only for some days
unhappytomatoe0
You are not suffering alone
Vai
see there is a solution and u will be out of it by Maa Saptashrungi ki.kripa .. God is with their kids always
angelkitty4
after some days same thing happen with me
unhappytomatoe0
Even with some days is amazing already, you managed to control yourself
Vai
see watch Dr. Deepak Kelkar s video on YouTube, it helped me with religious OCD .. I used to watch those videos n I hope it would help u too
angelkitty4
I do many wrong work so god also not help me
unhappytomatoe0
Life is not easy so we have to fight for it, fight for what we want, you can't just back down, do you
unhappytomatoe0
You said god didn't help, have you turn to him for help, god didn't ignore us, he just delay our prayers and give us something more than that
unhappytomatoe0
suicide is easy, but afterlife isn't sure enough to be easy too...
unhappytomatoe0
Try to shift your attention to something else when you thought of suicide, never let those negative mindset destroy you
angelkitty4
listen one person cheated me very badly
angelkitty4
I moved on
unhappytomatoe0
But why are you still affect by it?
angelkitty4
but he also insulted me because I am not as like him
angelkitty4
my problem is that that time I feel lonely I want long tim friend and I want to focus on my study
angelkitty4
but I can't
unhappytomatoe0
You can't because your mind isn't in peace, your own thoughts starting to eat you inside out
angelkitty4
yes
humoroustortoise7
that person cheated on you and all you want to do is end your life????.....God just saved you from that monster and here you don't liked it ....I know you gave your heart and it just got broken but better be thankful to God he saved you from something maybe worst....Life is more than just love and heartbreaks ...better celebrate your heartbrake and continue your life good days are ahead
angelkitty4
but I want to do that
unhappytomatoe0
What this person said is quite true
unhappytomatoe0
Start socializing, take your mind off somewhere else
angelkitty4
I want to focus on my study but I can't do that this is my main problem
unhappytomatoe0
Does that person even worth your time?? they rent free in your mind
angelkitty4
if I don't study I can't do anything in my life
unhappytomatoe0
Before you start studying, you have to take your mind off from that person
angelkitty4
don't tell me about meditation it not help me
unhappytomatoe0
Exactly why I ask if they even worth your time
angelkitty4
problem is not that person problem is inside me
angelkitty4
due to stress I have lots of open pores which make my face older than my age
unhappytomatoe0
There's your answer, you don't want to die, but you want to kill something inside you
angelkitty4
yes u are right
unhappytomatoe0
Than suicide is not the best solution
angelkitty4
but I am unable to fight with my problem
unhappytomatoe0
The more you think about ending your life the more you destroy yourself
unhappytomatoe0
You don't need to fight it, you have to face it first
angelkitty4
i have lots of open pores than I also think no boys marry me after that
unhappytomatoe0
Focus on yourself first before everything, your health your well-being is your priorities
angelkitty4
my ex says me also
unhappytomatoe0
There lot of facial treatment nowadays
unhappytomatoe0
Yes it's take times, and no need to rush about wedding
angelkitty4
it is expensive and also have side effects
unhappytomatoe0
Than first you have to learn how to love yourself, go easy on yourself first, you yourself is the first priority, men come later
unhappytomatoe0
Who know one day your skin will get better
unhappytomatoe0
And you have to take care of yourself too, get enough sleep, get enough nutrition
unhappytomatoe0
You can look up online how to take care of skin, what food should you eat and what food you should avoid
angelkitty4
it happens because of stress otherwise I am beautiful girl
unhappytomatoe0
We might not be the prettiest girl in the world, but love yourself no matter what
unhappytomatoe0
Than just start from beginning again, nothing wrong with that
angelkitty4
hmm
unhappytomatoe0
Start with taking care of your body, your mind
angelkitty4
and for study
unhappytomatoe0
Don't pressure yourself too much
angelkitty4
I need some friends
unhappytomatoe0
Great mind come from great body, so better take care of your body first
unhappytomatoe0
And chosing friends is also important for yourself
angelkitty4
ok
angelkitty4
my all friend is busy
unhappytomatoe0
😊
unhappytomatoe0
Make new friends than, a friend that have time for you
angelkitty4
thanks
angelkitty4
but every one is busy that time
unhappytomatoe0
you're welcome dear
angelkitty4
one thing
unhappytomatoe0
One day you meet them
angelkitty4
them
angelkitty4
them means
unhappytomatoe0
who know if you might get more than 1 friend with you someday