attracted towards a womann who is not as much committed in the relationship as the other partner because of her past
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Me yha ayaa apni problem share krne. Logo k dukh dekh kr man nhi kr rha apni takleef btane ka. Fir bhi likh deta hu... Meri gf h. Uska lagbhag 1.5 saal pehle divorce hua h. 4 saal pehle shaadi hui thi. Me har koshish krta hu use khush krne ki lekin mujhe kabhi kabhi lagta h ki vo jaan bhuj kr aage nhi badhna chahti, uske man me abhi bhi ex husband ko neecha dikhane ki soch h (matlab use apni galti ka ahsaas dilaane ki soch h). Gf ko ek physical pain h jo use past ki vajah se mila h lekin vo uska proper treatment nhi karaana chahti. Vo kuch din ki dawai kha leti aur pura course/checkup complete nhi krti. Mujhe lagta h is pain se vo puraane dukho ko yaad rakhna chahti h. Shayad ex husband se badla chahti h. Aur me aage badhna chahta hu uske saath. Iske saath saath ek baat aur h. Usko acha lagta h jab dusre ladke ya collegues usse flirt krte h chat pr. Vo unko bhaav deti h. Fir vo ladke gf se batameezi krte h. Fir gf ko gussa aata h. Fir vo mujhe btatai h. Aesa kai baar hua h kai ladko k saath. Maine use kaafi samjhaya ki tu faltu me bhaav hi kyu deti h kisi ladke ko? Jab ha bharne k baad vo firse mujhse chipa kr dusre ladko ko chat pr bhaav deti h. Mujhe dar h khi mere gf se shaadi krne k baad bhi aesa hi na chalta rahe. Hume baat krte hue sva saal ho gya h. Maine kaafi smjha h use lekin ye 2 baate mujhe red flag ki tarah lag rhi h. Vo mujhe gusse me bhot kuch ulta seedha bol deti h. Baat baat pe gussa krti h. Bhot si chize h jisse usko apna past yaad aata h to me un chizo ki baate krna bhi avoid krta hu. Me itna soch rha hu uske liye aur vo... Mujhe smjh nhi aarha Mujje kya krna chahiye.

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