attraction

Question

i really love someone, I'm strongly attracted to him, and he's already committed, he's just a good friend of mine! but i can't stop thinking about him, ice ruined my results and my routine, my personality i guess.. now i feel like I'm not growing from within, I'm not happy to the fullest, I've done each and every thing to get away, it's more than 6 months now, and he sometimes ignore me, i try to ignore him, to get his attention, but nothing works!! i want to be the old me again! be what I used to be, can anyone suggests anything to go with my situation!! also, i would like to remind, I've tried many many distractions, my own work, studies, holiday, talking to friends, ignoring him for severel days, talking to random guy to overcome him, it's like i don't want him to go away like that, and he doesn't know anything about it. he sometimes even call me sister in slang, i don't know what to do!!

satesh · Answer

then you to ignore him. accept that he is your friend and be happy that atleast u have chance to be with him sometime and U feel happy about it. you can make good memories of him. life is all about good moments lived . and yes you can tell him at least your feelings in simple way like ki I m feeling things for you somewhere in my heart. hope you wouldn't be committed

Lancelot · Answer

I would suggest maintain distance and give importance to ur self worth

Discovering · Answer

but, i can never ever tell him so, it will cost our friendship, along with our studies, as we are in same batch, also he shares us with how committed he is to his partner, it would be very wrong telling him so, but I can't help it na, feelings were there, and I'm not doing anything to him, but feeling disgusting on my own

Madlad007 · Answer

The hard truth is you have to tell the truth to him, you also have to make him understand you don't want to actually engage in a relationship and you just want the word out of your head, this will be more reliveing than keeping it inside,knowing the one you admire doesn't admire you will make you switch to someone else also start seeing other people, it will help a lot more.

moongdull · Answer

Move somewhere else for a while. Find new friends and new guys. Stay away from those who are not single, you may regret later. Look at the adversities in the world like poverty, abuse, climate change, inequality, illiteracy and homelessness. It may divert your mind for good.

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