being quiet and minding your own business is an art of living a good life. Some people cry for help when they don't need any....they just make sure they get sympathy and attention...As the time rolls I see them enjoying with the person whom they were afraid or disgusted of......it is a part of life to never lose focus on your goals just to help others by sympathizing or providing solutions to their problems......people know how to fund solutions to their problems most of the times....but all they do is to get your attention....it's a harsh reality....