I feel so tired stressed and helpless..my husband left for America for greener pastures in 16.he .left when our baby was a month old and she is now 6yrs.All was well up until 2019 when he started accessing me of cheating which u never did. in 2020 he came to see us.nothing went well he still continued with the Aligations and went on to say the child wasn't his until he did a dna and found out it was infact his child but even after that he things just worsened...at some point he came to Africa without as knowing he was lodging with his girlfriend..he stopped taking care of us...from 2016 to 2019 I had put my life on hold for this man hoping he would come and get us I get t a job in 2019 that's how am helping myself and child I feel so depressed I don't know what to do I need help I feel hepless

Question

I feel so tired stressed and helpless..my husband left for America for greener pastures in 16.he .left when our baby was a month old and she is now 6yrs.All was well up until 2019 when he started accessing me of cheating which u never did. in 2020 he came to see us.nothing went well he still continued with the Aligations and went on to say the child wasn't his until he did a dna and found out it was infact his child but even after that he things just worsened...at some point he came to Africa without as knowing he was lodging with his girlfriend..he stopped taking care of us...from 2016  to 2019 I had put my life on hold for this man hoping he would come and get us I get t a job in 2019 that's how am helping myself and child I feel so depressed I don't know what to do I need help I feel hepless

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Hey, he doesn't deserve you. What is important is for you to stand back up stronger and make a living for you and your child. As hard as it may sound, you need to pull yourself together, stop expecting from him, and stay happy

alertchile0 · Answer

hii it will be okay. He is not going to comeback and you need to move on from the pain he has given. You need to be in right mind for your child to grow as he/she looks upon you

joyfulrhino2 · Answer

I really have been trying.some times I feel like I have got it all together and other times I just feel so bad especially when the baby ask about him..and when the community talks just about how I was left by him... laughs and all....at times I feel like dieing you know but when I look at my child I feel so bad that I can't betray her too ..am just so heart broken

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

You are not answerble to society. Remember that. They are not entitled to answers on your personal life. As for your child, you need to keep it together for them. You are empowered to educate and raise your child. You don't need a man who has never been there for you and has accused you of cheating on him. Let people laugh if they want to, what else can they do? Give them a reply by working hard for you and your child. And one day your child will become successful and you will be known as a successful and strong mother who raised her child instead of giving up.

joyfulrhino2 · Answer

Thank you so much am going to keep pushing 🙏

help me please

how do I change for the better?

difficult tym after breakup