my husband is living abroad.. it's been almost 1.5 years since I got married.. ever since we lived a very short time period together.. I cannot be with my husband bcoz of the country's visa rules.. I have a baby to take care.. feeling exhausted taking care of my baby without my Partner's help.. I know he is struggling away from his family to earn money for us.. I am of no help.. I m well educated but bcoz of my baby, I couldn't work and I feel useless.. I worked really hard on my career which I have abandoned after getting married.. now its difficult to get back bcoz of my baby being dependant on me.. I m Afraid my career won't give me a chance bcoz of my long break.. Feeling so dejected by everything

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nidhi · Answer

try work from home for time being....i can understand....dont be upset ....your baby needs you....take proper rest...you can join any pvt company again anytime...dont wrry about it ...but right now u need to rest n tke care of baby...ask any family member if can come to help you....

weary_dreams · Answer

my in laws wants my baby to be with them.. so it feels even more lonely.. imagine living with in laws without husband.. it's difficult to do what I like.. it feels like I m locked in the house where no one takes me out nor sends me out.. feeling confined to the house taking care of a baby and doing things what others want from me

weary_dreams · Answer

I thought life would be good at my parent's house but after marriage even parents house doesn't feel like ours.. I feel like a guest at my own house.. I felt much better when I was with my husband in a foreign country but my visa is over and I cannot go back again.. I don't know when I will get a life with my husband again

usernametaken · Answer

hi weary... obviously it would be very hard time for u.... sorry to hear this

weary_dreams · Answer

I pity my own life sometimes.. this isn't what I imagined my married life to be.. I have no complains on my husband.. he is the best someone could ever get.. but we couldnt live a normal married life like anyother couple... together is something I don't even see in our future..

usernametaken · Answer

may i know why he is not taking Ong wid u...

weary_dreams · Answer

if you are asking why he isn't taking me with him.. it's bcoz of visa issues.. his salary can't get us a permanent visa there.. other visas have become so expensive that we are unable to afford

usernametaken · Answer

ohkk..i wish n i hope that his salary gets increase and u can move to that place... till that time enjoy time wid your baby as he/she needs u the most....

weary_dreams · Answer

yes.. when I don't get what I want then I should do what I m supposed to be doing.. I atleast wish I get allowed to work but I m Afraid my daughter would need me.. sacrificing things is what I have been doing since a long time

usernametaken · Answer

most of the companies giving work from home facility so u can choose thst so that u can work n take care of ur baby as well

weary_dreams · Answer

I have been trying to get a job for the past two months.. I m not getting any wfh jobs... what I want is not to work from home but to step out of the house and meet people.. it's been so long since I welcomed new friends into my life.. I want the cheerful life I used to own before marriage.. with a baby, I couldn't get back my old self... feeling tied down to married life (not my baby)

usernametaken · Answer

if u want i can refer u in some of the companies... where still wfh is going on...

weary_dreams · Answer

what job is it?

usernametaken · Answer

i don't know about ur education and work experience background  so can't suggest..

weary_dreams · Answer

exactly..

usernametaken · Answer

u can talk personally if u want .. else its okay

weary_dreams · Answer

thanks.. I will try to manage as much as I can

usernametaken · Answer

great and take care

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