hey i am just too much fed up with my mental health issues . I get irritated too easily, i trust people so easily, and everybody hates me. i trusted my boyfriend's brother too much and was chatting frequently with him. today he just raged on me saying I'm not trustworthy and he never wanted to talk to me. Am i too bad to be loved or liked? he kept saying that he knows i will cheat on his brother and im just too arrogant and what not? Even now i have no one to tell this all about i found about this app. why this happens to me always?

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dhaval99 · Answer

that's guys trying to take something from you...

dhaval99 · Answer

not starting his own but getting some benefits Outta it

its__me · Answer

but what ? and i feel my boyfriend just made me look a little controlling in front of him , which made him make this opinion about me. But i end up hating myself and thinking that everyone will leave me alone .

dhaval99 · Answer

why bother about someone else's words ? you are the one who knows yourself more than anyone else.. who the f*** is he to judge you.. and you too to get offended.. just cut that crap , share the entire scenario with your bf and know what he thinks.. probably he'll sort it out and you'll feel better..

its__me · Answer

he talked to me messaged me and tried being close to me and now he blaimed everything on me like i was the one dying to talk to him. i just feel dumb and useless

Jackson · Answer

stay away from him.Does your partner know you're chatting to his brother?

dhaval99 · Answer

@its_me i told you , he's trying to get something from you.. before it's late let your bf know the entire scenario and then act accordingly.

its__me · Answer

i tried calling him(bf) but he's too busy to be available for me for all this shit that his brother made. his brother's opinion about me are hurting me. it hurts even when there's somebody else, im just too sensitive about people making opinion about me

dhaval99 · Answer

@its__me get some courage for yourself.. be bold atleast in this case . don't let else's words spoil something of yours.. life is too long you'd probably get many of these shitheads

its__me · Answer

yeah my boyfriend knows about me and him chatting and he warned me too that it will be a disaster later. but i kept defending his brother so that i won't be a reason for them getting in any fight. tomorrow is a big day for me and im here crying over this crap.

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?