or you can talk to that person before marrying him or her dude then you can decide if you want to marry or not
i can't accept a new person in my life who take control over me. I am not an adjustable person guyz..
so I think it is better not to spoil somebody's life..
And the life of most of the people who are around me fails in their relationship.i just fed-up by seeing there relationships..
i totally understand you friend. sometimes it's ok not force or push things around. every flower blooms. we just need to wait for the correct time. so if you feel u don't wanna get married, that's totally fine too. just be clear that you ur doing the best for urself.