hey @zesty i know it's hard for u to accept these all and feel bad about how ur own family is criticizing u but when u know that ur are right no need to feel bad about it just have trust in urself that ur good enough.. nothing can make u feel hurt trust me when you care less about it u will be more happy
I relate to you,they are ashamed because I look skinny and underweight and they compare me to a friend who is much curvy and healthy, beautiful.. I feel soo unloved , I wanna know how to deal with it too
everytime i gather courage and finally put myself together...there again it goes how bad i am
see everyone is unique in their own way why God will make us like this if we were to be compared nobody is perfect or flawless even moon has scarce but it still is beautiful then why can't we even Kanha ji was not fair in color but still he is beautiful and loved by everyone it's ur heart and personality what matters the most don't feel offended by it ur all unique in ur own way
love urself ,know ur worth,respect urself,i don't deal with it...we start working hard so that we can get out the toxic place .
also we can't change these people, just don't let them or their words get it to u!