your brain is not like hard drive which can be formatted or deleted..... don't try to delete it reframe it...
HarshitBhardwaj
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@deep_thinker ... nice 👍 idea to reframe get rid of old photos pic new one
empathicorange3
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Yes harshit is right. You don't need to forget that person entirely instead try to approach people get to know them. You might find a good friend you can be close with.
mitu2
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i can't make a new friend...i am lost...i tried to forget but i can't
mitu2
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everytime i talk with someone...it make me feel like what if i again hurt?...my last friendship was worst...
empathicorange3
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Mitu, I know. The world has become like that, even friends have become someone that we should search for right now.
empathicorange3
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Mitu, don't try to make friends with everyone, be casual with people and if you feel that anyone is similar to you, then have some frequent chats with them. Observe them, if you feel that you can trust them then express yourself more openly. Being best friends need not necessarily take time, it's just a matter of two people with an understanding and open mindset. 😊
empathicorange3
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Just because you got hurt earlier doesn't mean that you will get hurt everytime right. After all it's difficult to hang in there without a friend isn't it. I am sorry that you had to face it like that.
mitu2
almost everything hurt me...friends...life...myself...i am broken now...i want me with my peace and my loneliness...where i was happy
alertchile0
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hii think about it like "okay I had someone like this in my life, but now that person is not there and it's all new again and great"
HarshitBhardwaj
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'alone' and 'being one' has very different states but same meaning.... try to be that friend of someone else that you never expected from someone else.... be the magnet don't be the iron chips
empathicorange3
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Mitu, being lonely might make you feel better. It's fine if you want to be. But having someone who has your back in your rough times and a person who is always there to cheer you up by cracking the most silliest jokes, and to always hang on with, makes you feel happier and much better in mind. You might have had it hard before and it hurt, this time why not be careful and take a step forward and go for it..
mitu2
i am a good friends...i never hurt anyone if someone expect somethings from me...but still it is tough for me...i cried alot...don't eat properly...can't sleep
mitu2
empathicorange3...thank u so much...but i am try from last 2 years...but still i have a fear in me
empathicorange3
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I understand mitu. There is always a fear of being abandoned again. But sometimes you only know once you go for it right. Be yourself in friendship ok ? You don't need to push yourself to reach the other friends standards. You only get close to someone whose caring as much as you or more.
HarshitBhardwaj
2 years is very long time now.... listen to @empathicorange3 give it a try..... I will pray for you this time that you will find the bestie
empathicorange3
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Yup if you need anything me and harshit are always here to help. You can update us here. Count us in as your two new friends . 😊
