I often get this feeling that I'm useless. What should I do?

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thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

you are not useless you are the reason I am surviving

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

I think you as my idol

Sasha123 · Answer

But I get this constant feeling. How to shake it off?

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

don't say these sasaga

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

sasha

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

why are you feeling so

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

any reasons

TheCalmestopener · Answer

Read Motivational quites

TheCalmestopener · Answer

quotes

Sasha123 · Answer

I don't know. I'm home right now and not doing anything. I only sit and use my phone all day. How to do something productive?

Sasha123 · Answer

I tried reading motivational quotes but I don't really like them.

TheCalmestopener · Answer

wat r ur hobbies?

Sasha123 · Answer

I like drawing and cooking. Nothing more.

TheCalmestopener · Answer

k. then try drawing something

TheCalmestopener · Answer

or cook a nice dish

Sasha123 · Answer

I tried but I can't keep doing it whole day right.

Shivaang · Answer

Do something valuable

TheCalmestopener · Answer

k... do u mind if v take this on insta?

Shivaang · Answer

can you tell what are you good?

Sasha123 · Answer

Something valuable like?

Shivaang · Answer

yes, you can hel those who need

Sasha123 · Answer

I don't know. I feel that I'm not good at any and that I'm dumb and stupid. I'm a complete failure.

TheCalmestopener · Answer

https://youtu.be/-Z3UBZ1Vamg

TheCalmestopener · Answer

sasha123 see this

TheCalmestopener · Answer

https://youtu.be/PhQgGAvU5NI

TheCalmestopener · Answer

this too

Shivaang · Answer

well because you Don't have skills, thats why you have this feeling

Sasha123 · Answer

The thing is my college is going to start next year. I'm free till then and I'm at home itself. I feel bad to be at home. A feeling that I'm totally useless is eating me up.

TheCalmestopener · Answer

Oh go ahead and visit places

Shivaang · Answer

you can learn things which can compliment your college journey

Sasha123 · Answer

@thecalmestopener thanks. But I'm not into these kind of videos. Not matter how much I watch them it won't change a thing in me.

Sasha123 · Answer

I know I don't have skills but how to develop them?

Shivaang · Answer

Start doing them, gather info, make action plan and excute it with consistency and constant improvising

Shivaang · Answer

I learn how to play flute through yt.

Sasha123 · Answer

Any ideas where can I start from. I'm absolutely clueless.

Shivaang · Answer

Well for that than you need to tell bit more about you

Sasha123 · Answer

What do you want to know?

Shivaang · Answer

what kind of person you like to be and about your collage subjects

Sasha123 · Answer

I've got a masters in English. And I want to feel more confident about myself and come out of my social anxiety and laziness.

Shivaang · Answer

everyone wants to be confident person but what i asking you is far different

Shivaang · Answer

What you want to do?

Sasha123 · Answer

Then what do you want to know?

Shivaang · Answer

You will be stuck forever if you can't  answer my question, sorry if I sound harsh but you need to know the answer of that question, well you can self assessment to solve the issue

Sasha123 · Answer

Ok I like to be someone who is good at doing the work they are doing. Right now I want to be more productive. I feel like I'm simply wasting my time.

Shivaang · Answer

if ask me this question my answer will be this'I want to be one of best video editor from India'

Shivaang · Answer

and so I am doing video editing on daily basis

Shivaang · Answer

Ig this makes things more clear

troubledbittern9 · Answer

why?

Sasha123 · Answer

Ok ok I get it now. So my field is English. I want to be good at English when it comes to speaking or writing. I don't want others to laugh at me for not good at the field I chose to make as my career.

Shivaang · Answer

you can be english content writers or you can be in teaching line

Sasha123 · Answer

I can't write content. I am not good at thinking and writing. Yes I'll be a teacher soon but my college will start next year. Till then I'm just at home wasting my time.

TheCalmestopener · Answer

Start writing whatever is in ur mind. U will feel better

TheCalmestopener · Answer

U can also try to watch motivational videos. Never stop trying. Thats wat I wanna tell

Shivaang · Answer

so you want to be teacher?

Sasha123 · Answer

Yes I want to be a teacher.

Shivaang · Answer

So how's your english grammar?

Shivaang · Answer

just question for my own curiosity:)

Sasha123 · Answer

I can speak and write. But I don't know the grammar rules. I mean I know it but I'm not tharough at it.

Shivaang · Answer

You can do that in your these free days.

Shivaang · Answer

To be more better

Sasha123 · Answer

Okay I'll do it.

Shivaang · Answer

How?

Sasha123 · Answer

I have a book where I have written all about grammar. I'll read and study it.

Sasha123 · Answer

No no. I have watched many YouTube videos on the various grammar concepts and made personal notes.

Shivaang · Answer

ooo look i am trying to re-learn  English grammar from the start, can you help?

Sasha123 · Answer

You want to learn grammar?

Shivaang · Answer

relearn

Sasha123 · Answer

Do you know Hindi? Because the YouTube channel I'm gonna suggest is very good but explains in Hindi.

Shivaang · Answer

as you can see, i can use english but the rules..well

TheCalmestopener · Answer

yes ik hindi

Shivaang · Answer

My name comes directly from mahadev

Sasha123 · Answer

Same with me Shivang. I don't have any problem speaking or writing in English. But when it comes to grammar I suck

Shivaang · Answer

Indian hu to Hindi to aaegi hi

TheCalmestopener · Answer

Suuurrree

Sasha123 · Answer

Well I have many friends who don't know Hindi and it's not necessary that all Indians Know Hindi.

Shivaang · Answer

Sure, I understand

Sasha123 · Answer

Watch Dear Sir on YouTube. He teaches very well. The way he explains the concepts is simply amazing.

Shivaang · Answer

Dear sir, I have watched him already

Sasha123 · Answer

Ohh then I don't know 😕

Shivaang · Answer

Don't worry i have already finish my research and got 2 books which can help you if you want to learn english grammar right from core

Sasha123 · Answer

Can you suggest me those?

Shivaang · Answer

Not here, sorry

Sasha123 · Answer

Shivaang is there any other way to do things productive by sitting at home?

Shivaang · Answer

Change your habbits

Sasha123 · Answer

It's Ok then. No problem. Thanks for hearing me and helping me out. I'll figure something out.

Shivaang · Answer

Cool

Shivaang · Answer

Do you mind following me on insta, I am building a community qround psycology related things.

Sasha123 · Answer

Sure. Can I follow through through my fake account though. I'm not comfortable sharing my real account.

Shivaang · Answer

ok, i am also using my public account

Sasha123 · Answer

What's your username?

Sasha123 · Answer

Okay thanks 👍

cautiousBass5 · Answer

same here

I am too boring person

my bf said he will break up

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