i don't feel very good today. I didn't feel good yesterday- infact, i haven't felt good since the last 2 months now. What triggered it? my cat's death. She died at a young age of 7 months. She was my first pet and i loved her more than i love my own family. After she left me, i felt abandoned! i became so depressed- i couldn't even eat, my family kept pushing me to study even then and i hated living. It was my birthday 5 days ago and i was so happy that day but on the very next day- this guy i liked a lot, dumped me before our first date ever and i have been crying every day ever since. I am not really the type of person who cries a lot, infact it was really difficult for me to cry before but nowadays all i do is cry. I am so stressed about my future, my past and my present ABOUT EVERYTHING! i wish the world ends or i die or anything like that.

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dian · Answer

Hey, I understand what you are going through..I lost my first pet(kid) Kitty at 7 months...I did not neuter him ontime he escaped out by mistake..i neve saw him...I do not what happened to him but I believe he is still alive though the reality is very rare....It was tough initially but you know what I realised later he came into my life with a purpose...I never had any sort of love towards animals before but after him everything changed i became compassionate and now it's the animals is all I care about...After him I have adopted 3 more...it's been 3 yes but I remember him always n I know he is watching me...hold up there are many orphaned animals on street adopt n give them new life...this is what he or her would want you to

eyeameste · Answer

i am thinking about adopting a kitten again but i am scared I'll lose them

dian · Answer

how did you loose him...then I'll be able to help you raise him or her carefully

eyeameste · Answer

i have a big house and my mother didn't let her poop inside our house even though i gave her proper litter training- she always went out to our garden to do her business and often times went into our colony to move around. Everyone in my colony knew her so it was safe(cars didn't come around this side) until she started leaving our house from the back door. There are dogs, pigs, wild cats and many cars and motorcycles that move around that side. One day she came to me and sat on my lap for 30 minutes (she had quit doing that because of the weather being hot) and then she left the house and didn't come back at night- i thought it was because she was in heat and figured she'd come back like she always did but the next day i got a call that she had passed away near my back door.

dian · Answer

you will have to cat proof your room first nad house if possible...You have to raise them indoor...and neuter on time to avoid heat cycles or unwanted pregnancies...I have 2 3 yr olds n 1 2 yr old complete Indoor... Outdor is only in leash walk in the terrace or tying them in balcony so they can look outside as such

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?