I am here . what is it that made you feel like that
confessiondiary
well I person I've known n been closest to for the last 3½ years is barely talking to me. I can see the relationship fading away... also career wise I feel like I didn't do anything for a year n m just stuck now
empathicorange3
Career wise ..do you feel stuck because you are feeling incomplete with that person and it's because he's avoiding you arent you able to do anything at work?
empathicorange3
Is that person your bf ?
confessiondiary
was
confessiondiary
we broke up but were on taking terms for 2 months
confessiondiary
ya kindoff right about the career part
empathicorange3
Hm I can relate to it. Uou ppl Broke up and what's the reason ?
confessiondiary
he moved for clg
empathicorange3
Is It because one of you felt distanced or did someone wanted to let go or any such kind ?
empathicorange3
Oh for college. Then why didn't you go for a long distance relationship?
confessiondiary
he found it difficult to manage it he said he couldn't find time
empathicorange3
How long have you both been together ?
confessiondiary
year and a half
confessiondiary
we were bestfriends before it
empathicorange3
You have been together for almost 4yrs and he said he couldn't find time ??! I am so sorry. You must be having a hard time.
empathicorange3
I really want you start moving on. I know it's hard cause I am someone who went through it. It's going to be hard unless until you try hard. I had to force myself to cocetrate and everyday I let out my emotions on my pillow. Letting it out makes you feel better. Try to go for walks and listen to music it helped me. You shouldn't suffer when the person who has left you here in such a situation is doing fine out there.
empathicorange3
Trust me if you put an effort into it..one day you are gonna feel happy that you have been strong enough be in the position you are at that time and also will be Glad that you had concentrated on your career wise too.
confessiondiary
I know I just feel so pathetic because of it like I am the konda person that has a small group n pours all my energy n love into those people n the fact that I no one really reciprocates really hurts me these days
empathicorange3
I know when I was in such a situation I felt abandoned. Cause I gave it my all my everything but recieved none on my end. It's hard to live like that. But what can we do if the person didn't even mind leaving you behind in tears knowing how much you loved him. He just left you hung dried here knowing everything right. Then why do you want to suffer for someone who didn't even give a damn thing about you or your feelings or your emotions..
confessiondiary
I don't know maybe I just liked the idea of someone wanting to talk to me
confessiondiary
I just feel so needy rn
confessiondiary
btw you have been very kind to reply so thankyou. I'll sleep for now n try to wake up early n get into a routine. I'll post here whenever I feel like texting him
empathicorange3
I know that's what I felt too. But I was alone at that time. I had no help I cut myself off every social media platform and didn't even care to share it out. I just tried to lift myself up. Even though it hurts we women should be strong right 😊. If you want I am always here. I won't let you feel alone or go through it alone like how I did when I was all by myself. Happy to help you .. you can do this.
empathicorange3
Yup always ! Get yourself a good sleep . And let tomorrow be a better day. I hope you get back to your normal self soon. And you rock don't let yourself down ever girl !!
confessiondiary
I am actually crying rn thank you so much for your kindness you made me feel better. you are a good person
empathicorange3
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It's Ok to let your emotions out once in a while..vent them out, after all we are human arent we..
empathicorange3
And your nick name if I might know ? You can call me sunshine 😊
empathicorange3
Now go and give yourself some rest and some time for your heart to heal. Its okay. Everything's gonna be fine. 🫂
confessiondiary
you can call me maya
empathicorange3
Yep Maya now get some rest.. don't think about anything okay. Have a peace of mind and dose of to sleep.
