u wanna be free from shackles and scream out loud?
osaka
they don't understand me
osaka
I want to feel like a normal teenager where atleast monitored 24/7
DHRUBA001
and u have no one to share this with. mostly bcz thy would judge you for that? is that right!??
farshy756
you're parents are overprotective?
osaka
yuh when I open up that am hurting they punish am dad keeps fighting with mom
osaka
nahh that's not being protective am dad is too controlling
DHRUBA001
i get that. so was I. what it made me , i know way too well. every step every thing was monitored. thanks to that I developed a few skills. now no one can track my footprints. sorry I digress. the thing is they are worried but at the same time you got no defence against that. prove yoursythat you can handle things your own better than anyone else. start making decisions bout things yourself and be bold bout it. keep your cards and don't reveal it.
osaka
am sacred my sister is 19 n am dad married her off to someone twice her age she tried telling my dad bt he punished all of us
DHRUBA001
that's scary
DHRUBA001
well if you get a job right after graduation then your situation might imporve. since you don't have to be dependent on them
osaka
my dad plans on stopping me from going to school
osaka
someone help am hurting everytime I look at any sharp items suicidal thoughts always start
DHRUBA001
ur 12th done?
DHRUBA001
ok make a CV apply on job sites. immediately. avoid APNA and MONSTER.COM or any job ad that comes up via social media Ad.
DHRUBA001
indeed, Glassdoor, ambition Box, and Naukri. install them and look for jobs. avoid Data entry. most of them are fakes. look i can't exactly help you directly. but for now if you passed your 12th get a job be independent and get a degree via distance then apply for others and grow. This will keep u busy and also grant you independence. Have focus and just Do it. that's all I can say
osaka
where do I start I just entered high school got no qualifications
DHRUBA001
get a computer course certificate, anything basics and if possible coding. that's gonna help you get jobs easier.
DHRUBA001
bdw which class are u in. sorry I thought u r in 11/12
humorousMagpie7
pleasebe my frd osaka going thru the same
brainylollies9
i am being councelled here from past 3 months and i am much better now. i am looking for a job. advice to u get educated be in touch with people in your relatives whom you think will understand you.
brainylollies9
take your admission in 11 away from them in different city if possible. you will definitely feel a change.
brainylollies9
and hope they will get ready tell them that this school or college is best etc etc but dont let them know you are trying to move away from them 😉
osaka
he doesn't even knw i own a phone am bought it on my own
osaka
I just want to get out of hea
osaka
bt I have no way out
brainylollies9
prepare well for your high school and try to get in to 11 class somewhere else
brainylollies9
stay in hostel if u r suffering dear. u will be at peace
brainylollies9
i can understand such atmosphere harms mental peace.
osaka
he's going to look for me and he gonna find me eventually
brainylollies9
no no donot run away make them ready. that u want to score good etc etc
brainylollies9
this will be tough but they will get ready i know cause they love you. but handle it smartly
