so has this ever happened where there is a person in ur class who is consistently good at bringing grades the fair way answering in class and being attentive and not day has there been u see them mess up so u start looking up to them u start trying to be like them and when u try to gain their attention u just get the usual response or somthing vague and neutral so that messes u up how do u deal with that or is it that i care too much