Hi, I am 25, about to get married to my boyfriend. He comes from a different religion and status. His family is still sweet to me. I feel sad about not being settled. Nas even sadder when I am unable to work at my job. It is low paying, doesn't involve much stress. But i just don't feel like opening laptop. I also got enrolled in a course to make a switch to a better paying job. But wasn't able to keep up with it. Further my in-laws told they want me to keep family above job. They won't allow me having my job at priority. I am very confused. Lack will. Feel completely lost. Don't know which direction to go. Feel like I have no skill whatsoever. Have very less confidence in self. :'(

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Hi, I am 25, about to get married to my boyfriend. He comes from a different religion and status. His family is still sweet to me. I feel sad about not being settled. Nas even sadder when I am unable to work at my job. It is low paying, doesn't involve much stress. But i just don't feel like opening laptop. I also got enrolled in a course to make a switch to a better paying job. But wasn't able to keep up with it. Further my in-laws told they want me to keep family above job. They won't allow me having my job at priority. I am very confused. Lack will. Feel completely lost. Don't know which direction to go. Feel like I have no skill whatsoever. Have very less confidence in self.  :'(

Solitude · Answer

Hi. Congratulations on ur wedding ❤️. I would like to tell u to talk to your fiancé and family about ur wishes. In this present world having a job and earnings is very very important. Or else later u might find it difficult. Please talk to them and try to pursue a career u like.

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