hi everyone, I'm new to IAmEars, but I went through some trauma on friday... I was almost kidnapped and raped by someone that most of my family members know and I don't know how to tell them that it's him, he's twice my age and also did one of my tattoos, so I was stupid enough to trust him, since my family did their tattoos by him, but we were about 3 or 4 blocks away from his house when he stopped at a little shop to buy some things for 'after everything' and I decided to get out and run as fast as I can and now I don't know what to do with myself. I scratched up the tattoo with a razor blade because it's a reminder of everything he said he'd do to me and I'm scared for my life because he knows where I live and where I work

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Black · Answer

I don't know what exactly is situation is but from your story I only adviced you that why the hell are you afraid to tell your parents . doesn't matter how close he is with your family . you have to be strong even if your parents are against you , are you  continue going  to abused by him. if he is abused you make him pay double. don't just sit and cry like shit fight against it NO MEANS NO

troubledCaribou0 · Answer

how old you are you have to tell to your parents if you are below 18 that your parents will take decision for you they change area where you live they can report to police and beat that tatoo man also, if you will not tell to your parents than that tatoo man will abuse you and threaten you even take advantage of yoir parents trust

troubledCaribou0 · Answer

if you are adult avove 18, you can take your own decision go and report to police straight away

morbidgnu6 · Answer

I'm turning 20 and planning to move away

troubledCaribou0 · Answer

and what about reporting to police

morbidgnu6 · Answer

they aren't really useful

troubledCaribou0 · Answer

are you sure do have examples

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?