am not happy with my marriage is it bad to get out of it

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guiltystork0 · Answer

ofcourse not

farshy756 · Answer

it is not bad to get out of a relationship you have no feelings for.

guiltystork0 · Answer

you don't love your partner?

kadays · Answer

I lost my feelings for him I feel nothing when he comes cross to me

farshy756 · Answer

from how long you have started to loss feelings for your partner?

kadays · Answer

it's a while I have like four months feeling nothing

guiltystork0 · Answer

do you guys have kids

farshy756 · Answer

were you under any stress or had any bad experiences?

kadays · Answer

yeap one kid she is 3yrs

guiltystork0 · Answer

ohhh

guiltystork0 · Answer

then you really need to think about it because of you guys your kind should not suffer

guiltystork0 · Answer

kid*

kadays · Answer

then what should I do should I leave him or stay am confused

farshy756 · Answer

have you talked about this with anyone else in your family?

kadays · Answer

Not yet

farshy756 · Answer

are you sure about your feelings?

guiltystork0 · Answer

how much time you had in this marriage

kadays · Answer

yeah very sure because I have stayed 4months without feeling anything and we are sleeping in same bed

kadays · Answer

am in this marriage 5years

guiltystork0 · Answer

to be honest you should talk to your husband tell him what you feel

farshy756 · Answer

I know you don't have any feelings for your partner but I would still recommend you to consult a marriage counselor so even if you end the marriage, the counselor can give you professional help after your divorce.

guiltystork0 · Answer

my be he understands and makes more efforts to make your relationship works

kadays · Answer

the worst thing is that I feel so ashamed of myself loosing his feeling has made me cheat on him but I didn't plan for that

guiltystork0 · Answer

that's the key you loose feelings because you attracted to another man

guiltystork0 · Answer

and may be you like some one else?

farshy756 · Answer

were you unsatisfied in your marriage before you started lossing feelings for your partner?

kadays · Answer

Noo loosing my feelings came first,, after I have stayed for three months I met another guy I slept with him and I have try my best to get my feelings back

farshy756 · Answer

I see,

farshy756 · Answer

did you catch any feelings for the person you slept with?

kadays · Answer

talking the truth I slept with the guy three months ago until now I still feel for him

farshy756 · Answer

I think it is the best for you and your husband to consult a marriage counselor and you should get out of that relationship, and regarding your child, you should consult a child psychiatrist.

farshy756 · Answer

what you are going through requires professional guidance from certified psychiatrist and marriage counselor.

kadays · Answer

am going through something I can't tell anybody face to face

farshy756 · Answer

I understand but you cannot live like this forever, someday you have to face this.

kadays · Answer

I think I have to stay with it instead of leaving and  force myself to him

farshy756 · Answer

I think you should get out of this relationship, it is not going end well, if you force yourself in a relationship to you are not happy with.

kadays · Answer

I will try and make the write decision

farshy756 · Answer

I know you will, all the best for your future.

kadays · Answer

thank you so much for listening to me I appreciate may God bless you

farshy756 · Answer

thank you for your blessings 😊😊

kadays · Answer

welcome 🙏

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