so did u asked him why he is replying so late and not regularly?

nooo im too scared to ask that😭

please better ask in a different way... that are u busy in some work or like what

so may be he will let u know the reason

what if he thinks that im too desperate?

let him...what's d issue in that...u care for him and that's y u r asking... there is no harm in thus

so like what exactly should i text him

just start the conversation in a normal way.. and in between you may ask him... better do it on call

lol we don't talk on call only thru text i can ask so like should i say that where have u been lately or something like that

yes yes u can directly ask him because there was everything fine and now things getting changed... so be staright forward and ask for the reason..

but WHAT IF after asking that he distances himself i have this feeling and our relation is we are like related somehow so he knows me personally too what if he's just talking to me for the sake of it? like so that i won't feel bad

but anywhich ways you have to. figure out why he is doing now only....so either you keep it yourself or better you ask him..

and if u will keep it yourself then it will going to kill u from inside and may be he has some genuine concern

okayyy let's wait for his reply now it's been 11 hours lol that's a lot but anyways i hope i'll get it by tomorrow when i wake up

yeahhh thankyou so much for helping me <3

no problem...and anyways ( its okay to be like this. ) 😂

hey I agree with anumitv.. casually ask what happened when u guys are talking.. if he is distancing himself, there must be a reason . many people come and go .. time will make you mature to realise that the only person that stays is you, your parents

Something similar happened to me.The only difference is i was dating a guy. N then one day he broken up with me not giving me any reason i still kept talking to him but 2 days ago i got blocked

hey so today i finally asked him the reason like i have sent the message and let's wait for his reply lol let's hope for the best :) thankyou anumitv for giving me the confidence to even ask him this

yes hope for the best..

update : its been 7 hours still he didn't reply :(

don't expect too much ..if he respond it is good, if not just move on... it will be good for you.. there are many imp people rather to wait for only one... don't be sad... be happy ...:)

May be he found someone whatever one thing for sure is that he is not taking u seriously and doesn't deserve any seriousness from you

but the fact that he still replies very sweetly and like i mean something to him and to make one thing clear that he is not toxic and stuff lol even tho it seems like that but he's genuinely too good

if he has replied to you sweetly now, then may be he is still available and there,....

if he replies then we will be very happy... but if he not please don't worry at all.. i can understand that u like him very much and u want to be connected with that person but he should be clear with his thoughts and he should express whatever running in his mind..

hi so finally he replied so he say that nothing i just don't use insta and snap that much lol😭

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heheeh what a reply...🤔🤔

exactlyyyyy but he didn't say it like this ofc, like in my language he said that in a different way with 3 messages hahaha i just had to convert it in english that's why it may sound a little dry lol and now im confused that what should i even reply :/

now you need to understand what s your importance in his life... whether he axtually mean you or not ?

yeah but how should I ask like even indirectly what should i ask him

he won't tell you directly even if u will ask. he will keep you in puzzle all d time.. so better understand the Situation and respond accordingly..

so i have decided to reply him after 1 day and if he responds to me quickly that means he really wants to talk but if he thinks that it is normal or something like that then i will think about it, what do u think???

yes go for it...

it's quite clear that he doesn't really want to talk, because he has replied casually after many hours. you are just spending all your productive time in someone who doesn't care. Sometimes men do these kind of cheap games to make us fall more for them but they won't be committed to us. they will just enjoy that wehave fallen and take some joy in it. thinking they r the most smart or handsome people. it's not worth it. noone deserves your attention soo much unless they r your family. pls let it go. get busy in some worhty place. what are your hobbies and what are your wishes

any update..? all well ?

i haven't replied its even 23 hours now im going to reply let's see what happens

so i replied at 1am after 1 whole day lol now it's 6am ofc he is sleeping so let's see what does he replies

as just Shreya said .. he doesn't really wanted to talk.. he just surpassing the time...so value your time..