boyfreinds issues.

Question

I've got this boyfriend of for almost three years, we broke up for 6 months then we came back to eachother because we would fit perfectly like puzzle pieces. he understands me so well. While we were broken up, I was free, my flirting game was so strong that it turned into a reflex habit. I met new people, made new freinds. i wouldn't say I changed, I grew. We patched up on new years, and as much as I was happy that he was back into my life, these days I feel like he doesn't put much effort into our relationship anymore because he's already got me right? we small talk on a daily basis. nothing interesting, no flirting, nothing. and honestly I'm bored and annoyed because it was more fun when I used to flirt with guys with noo strings attached. last night I told him that our conversations bore me and he said 'I like sitting in your silence' I know that's cute but wtf am I supposed to do, stare at my screen for 2 hours?

kate11x · Answer

bf's can be a pain in the a$$ if you dont feel the electricity between you two i think you should break up and move on.

Angellahhatiram · Answer

First of all it is your happiness that matters because what's the point of being in a relationship where you are not having fun...It is supposed to be a fun and interesting period getting to know each other everyday..Tell him what you want in your relationship if he doesn't want it then there's no point of you guys being together .

potat_hoe · Answer

But you know what, he's the only person who truly knows me you know, I could not find someone to fit me as well as he does. And relationships aren't supposed all cute and cliche all time you know. On one hand, I'm like it's okay that it's not all cute like it used to be in the beginning u have to spent the rest of my life with him because he's very understanding and then on the other hand I'm like fuck this shit, I can't stay in a relationship where the light can't even spark.

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?