breakup💔

Question

i was in a relationship for past 10 months . Initially it was nice , but after some time i started thinking that boy was not interested in me . he was not dating someone else but he ignored me often and it was not a big deal for him to talk daily or just to do a video call to make me happy but after sometime overthinking so much i decided to tell that guy but he said i am not responsible for any ones happiness that think hurt me so much that i told him i want to be single and just be friends but i was so badly attached to him that within few days i went back to him i literally apologized and said to him please dont leave we  have been physically involved too but he said our compatibility dont match and we should end it but i am not able to forget him idk why🥺

needfulTruffle5 · Answer

what is the time frame?

affectedAntelope0 · Answer

about what

affectedAntelope0 · Answer

approximately 1 year of relationship yesterday we broke and neither he texted nor called

needfulTruffle5 · Answer

about the event which make you separated from him

affectedAntelope0 · Answer

4 5 days happened

affectedAntelope0 · Answer

idk what to do i am feeling so helpless rn . i am unable to study nor concentrate on any other things and he is happily enjoying with his friends

needfulTruffle5 · Answer

according to the statement which you have posted it seems that the guy was already moved on mentally. Physically guys need some time to get over until they are sure about engaging with others. You can verify my words. You will be again important to him within few months until he didn't get the needs.

affectedAntelope0 · Answer

then at that point what should i do

affectedAntelope0 · Answer

i think he is with some other girl i am not sure about it . when i asked him he said to check his phone but I didn't

needfulTruffle5 · Answer

You are fucked up. welcome to the club. you can't do anything. if I say you will be trying these two steps already: 1. Stalking him and feeling bad by seeing him happy without you. 2. you want to communicate with strangers guy to get yourself engage. 2 option will make you regret. You need a person who can understand you well your situation and whom you can trust.

affectedAntelope0 · Answer

yes i dont know what to do i feel like crying

needfulTruffle5 · Answer

you need a Dear zindagi kind of counselling?

affectedAntelope0 · Answer

i dont have that much financial resources nor my parents know about all this

needfulTruffle5 · Answer

Dear Zindagi kind of counselling means you need to explore yourself and you have to find how important you and your mental health is.

needfulTruffle5 · Answer

you are a beautiful soul. you are in bad situation now. i have been through the same it is very difficult to pass this. i had 18 months of hallucinations and nightmares after that i learned how important mental health is and helping people through various platforms.

affectedAntelope0 · Answer

okayy

vamsivln2519 · Answer

While we start a relationship everything will run tooo smoothly yar . We feel like we are the only person happy in this world . But if something changes Little also we won't accept it . And more over if i girl is ready to do physical with a boy means some will take that as a chance and some in other way . Physical thing is the major part which will always haunt you that's the reason you are not able to forget him . Please don't give value to the persons who doesn't care about you . Just this it's a experience in ur life . Just take this relationship as a practice match and physical thing also nothing is wrong in it yar .Just be happy this is one and only life God has given you us

vamsivln2519 · Answer

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i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

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Frustrating

help me please