breakup because of guy's family

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From the last 4 years we r in good relationship.when we ask our relationship with our parents they r not accepted.so his parents r forced to marry with another girl they r blackmail him that if he marry me they'll get suicide.Then he suddenly changed said be he won't marry me he want to marry with another girl.so he didn't reply me .so plss help ,I want he will be back in my relationship.every day I suffered a lot about him Tell me what now I am going to do I want him back plssstell me

Hani

2 Answers
Lovelife
Hello Hani, You have a complicated situation over here. It's really difficult for the boy to go ahead with this relationship given the circumstances. There is nothing to do much if the other person is giving up. If you can persuade him somehow to talk to his parents again and make them understand about your relationship then there may be chance. If he has given up then you should try to move on as well. For that first you have to divert your mind from his memories. Try binge watching a TV series, so exercise, make a schedule such that you don't have any empty time. With time your mind will heal. Remember, all our sufferings are in our mind, if you can train it to be happy without your bf then you will start feeling great again. Hope it helps.
hansa_shaunik
Hani, it seems you are enmeshed in a a rather drama filled dynamic with your boyfriend. Has he told you what is the reason for his parents' resistance?