What's a painless way to kill myself? 🙏That's the only solution to my miserable purpose lacking life. I'm unemployed, have 0 friends, parents want to marry me off and send me to a place I've always hated due to the narrow mindedness of the natives. We moved to a new city last year and ever since, my life has lost all meaning. I wanna go back to the place I was brought up in, but I don't see how I can go there even after getting married, as the guy would might be working elsewhere. I was always a topper, I had an excellent education but my life is over now. Nobody understands me. I want to end my life, please 🙏🙏🙏

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usernametaken · Answer

hey dear .. please don't think much... i can definitely understand your concern that u have moved out to new city and no friend are around u .. but just give some time to yourself and keep yourself busy... involve in some kind of activities and then try to engage with people. things will be better soon

vaybell · Answer

can you consider removing the elements that simply don’t make you happy??? This is your life, not everyone else’s! Start loving on yourself.

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

How can I engage myself? This is not a normal kind of city. There's only temples and old people all around me. My entire day goes away with my phone

usernametaken · Answer

you can go for a walk, Gym or any kind of activities.. and there u can make friend...

usernametaken · Answer

lying . may be she is not surrounded with lot of people and this is the reason she doesn't have lot of freinds..

Introvert111 · Answer

hey pls don't do that it's gonna be okay I am topper I got job but there are many problems in job also I wanted to quit and get married pls think once

usernametaken · Answer

yes agreed.. u r adult and can easily make friends. best way is to keep yourself busy and don't sit alone... go out and have fun.. things will be better soon

usernametaken · Answer

hey excited... don't think too much.. just be yourself and enjoy... this time will be gone soonnnnnn....

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Thanks for your comments everyone. I did make a friend who later turned out to be a pervert. I wanna get back to my old city and get a job. I've been thinking about my parents and staying here just for them. I don't think I can be an obedient daughter any longer though

usernametaken · Answer

don't worry u will get someone more better.. Yes just think about your parents and if possible make them agree to move back to old city again.

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Thanks @usernametaken. Sorry to bother you, but there's one more thing. My parents want to marry me to a guy from my native place, but I actually wanna go back to the city I grew up in. I'm not taking names of the cities as this is an online platform. How do I convince the guy to move with me? Would it be right if I moved alone after marriage? Would that raise questions?

usernametaken · Answer

First try to speak with your parents and try to convince them.. if that doesn't work then speak with him tell him about opportunities of a bigger city if his job is not at native place..and tell him that u can also earn as well.. better u ask him all these before marriage...

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Talking to my parents is of no point. I spoke to a guy last year and he wasn't willing to move at all or compromise in any way. That's why I'm wondering if it would be right to move after marriage, myself. Or would it create more troubles? It seems like a small issue but for me it really isn't

pluckyAbalone7 · Answer

don't die it won't do anything u will just be reborn into a new boring life

ferventCheetah9 · Answer

you've most of my problems I've.

ferventCheetah9 · Answer

I can feel your pain

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@ferventcheetah9- It's a relief to know I'm not alone. Hope we both get through fine

ferventCheetah9 · Answer

@exitedTomatoe7 may God bless you and give you the strength to deal with all this... writing this as if telling this to myself. don't worry one day everything will be okay.... it has to be

usernametaken · Answer

yes better try after marriage and you will have control afterwords..

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@usernametaken- I've been thinking so too. To use my resources and just talk to my husband and move. Not involving both families would be wise as it's my life and I get to decide and be incharge

usernametaken · Answer

yes correct...once you ll be incharge of the house and under control... so make him understand later..

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@ferventcheetah9- thank you for your words of comfort. It'll be fine for us all one fine day 🙂

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@usernametaken- I agree with you. Thanks a lot. you've no idea how disturbed I've been but I'm overhwhelmed with all the comments. Thank you

usernametaken · Answer

Excited .... please take care of urself... and be motivated.. we are here to support u.. take care always and keep smiling..

fucked up

why are they not conducting sessions now

i am findiding difficult to move on

family problem ki bjh se bhut jyada negative thoughts aa rhy h .. suicides k thoughts jyada aa rhy h