there's a friend of mine we been together since 3 years. earlier we use to do part times and whatever we use to earn.we use to spend on ourselves. we use to find under budget clothes and things. now she got a bf and his bf earns. and he spends on her. I'm kind of happy for her that she got someone to support her. but her behaviour has drastically changed toward me. she acts like she's superior than me. it kinds of pisses me off and make me feel bad. I can't tell her about this. our friendship isn't as stronger as it use to be I can see her slowly going away from me.

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Kira_X_L · Answer

buddy if the friendship goes, let it go... when someone goes into a relationship the friends are always the first one to get the boot... only a real friend sticks with us... so if she goes, throw her a damn bon voyage party

eliza09 · Answer

@kira_x_L she's my only friend I am really bad at making friends. if she left I'll have no one to talk....and I don't want her to think that I ditched her or something...or I am jealous

eliza09 · Answer

sometimes I feel I am just jealous.....but ....on the other hand I am happy to see her happy... it's confusing and frustrating

Kira_X_L · Answer

i am not telling you to ditch her... i am telling you to stay as friends... but if you see her going away from you then let it happen... if you try to hold onto that friendship even in that stage trust me you will see things turn ugly... she will start to blame you for relationship problems, she will be way more rude to you...

Lancelot · Answer

work on urself and give importance to urself

eliza09 · Answer

@lancelot the thoughts keep biting me every other min....

eliza09 · Answer

@kira_x_L I'm trying to let her go.....but the overthinking, the thoughts and everything is ruining my mood, my day and my schedule

Lancelot · Answer

lemme tell u...don't break it friendship by let go of the thought that u can't make more friends and u cannot blame urself or her as life changes when I find a partner....if I would have found someone earlier than her its very much possible that scenario may have been opposite

eliza09 · Answer

if you're saying..that If I got a bf first... I'll do the same as she is doing ..the answer is no...I was in a relationship. and then also she came before my bf. we were too close....like really close Nd now the distance is just fucking with my peace...I know nothing about her life ....there was a time...when I was aware about each and everything.

Lancelot · Answer

I don't mean to say u would have done same thing ..don't get me wrong....i mean to say people are different and they make their choices .give it time ...kal kisko pata... hopefully u LL get a conversation to clear it out with her...

eliza09 · Answer

I am also hoping the same ....but I'm sure I'll never be able to tell this to her...

Lancelot · Answer

y not have a convoy when it feels right coz  ...for now go with the flow and do what u think is right for u

moongdull · Answer

find a new friend

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