hello ,I am not feeling well and too stuck in my relationship, needed some help to share please help I am so lonely even in relationship please help

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inadilema · Answer

why are you feeling lonely as you are in a relationship? is the other person is not giving you time or efforts?

farshy756 · Answer

hi

senorita2 · Answer

he cheated me and not accepting

senorita2 · Answer

he says nothing like that

senorita2 · Answer

please talk n tell me something

inadilema · Answer

how do you know he cheated you? if you have any proof then show him and ask abt that. have a proper and clear communication.

senorita2 · Answer

yes a lot of proof

senorita2 · Answer

but he tells me that's not his or her

senorita2 · Answer

he tell me thay are just friends

senorita2 · Answer

and when I ask for her massages he tell me by mistake shend him and he always making accuses

senorita2 · Answer

and u know I am badly stuck with him bcz I marry with him n also pregnant and no body knows that things

senorita2 · Answer

I was having beautiful life of 5 years

inadilema · Answer

tell him to break his friendship with that grl

inadilema · Answer

as it's affecting you a lot

inadilema · Answer

talk to that girl too and tell her to stay away from your husband. talk fst in a normal n positive and calm way.

senorita2 · Answer

I am telling him alot of time he is not breaking his friendship

inadilema · Answer

then talk to that girl.

senorita2 · Answer

and he tell me not to talk about this Matter to anyone otherwise he left me he just tell u just live your life peacefully not interfere in my life I am not harming u any way but

senorita2 · Answer

I really want to die

senorita2 · Answer

its sure I am having no way

inadilema · Answer

think about ur parents n also u hv a little one. I knw this type of thought wl come as m also having such situations. my bf also got married to sm1 else saying he had to fr his family n it's a long story.

senorita2 · Answer

ooo sorry 😞

senorita2 · Answer

u can tell me ur story too

inadilema · Answer

still talk to that girl and confront your bf that as he's not doing it u were bound to do that

senorita2 · Answer

u know I'm feeling really lonely now n really want someone support

senorita2 · Answer

yes but I don't want to lose him in this situation

inadilema · Answer

while he proposed me i told him about all my past but he hid everything from me. i asked him too.... still if didn't told me n not talking for few days is normal for him. nly pain is Der in my story. still I lv him a lot. he has not done anything for me still I don't know y i lv him so much and despite of wanting to go away from him I am finding myself unable to go away from him

senorita2 · Answer

is English is ur first language

senorita2 · Answer

can u understand hindi

inadilema · Answer

hmm.....i knw losing is very difficult.

inadilema · Answer

yes I understand hindi

senorita2 · Answer

bcz English is not my first language

inadilema · Answer

mine too

senorita2 · Answer

hmm when we love someone truly we can easily addicted with them

senorita2 · Answer

ok

senorita2 · Answer

kya apke bf ne before marriage apko bataya ya baad me

inadilema · Answer

usne before mrg bataya par seriously nahi....mujhe laga wo mujhse gussa he isliye esa bol raha he

inadilema · Answer

par marriage ka pic uske frnds ke account me dekhne ke baad mujhe confirm hua

inadilema · Answer

me uske wp ,fb kisi bhi account me nahi hu..... bas uske dark period ki support system hu jo andhere me hi he

inadilema · Answer

usne apni fst gf se mrg ki he....usne kaha usko mrg karna pada bcz uske parents ne force kia

inadilema · Answer

wo mana kar sakta tha bcz uske paas job nhi tha us waqt ...... still he didn't

inadilema · Answer

abhi tak usne mrg kyu Kia , kya majburi thi mujhe nahi pata....bcz hamari itni baat bhi nahi hoti he

inadilema · Answer

wo bolta he wo forcefully uske saath he.....but mujhe nhi lagta... bcz usko wo care karta he,uska bday usko yaad hota he n mera nahi, usko my Jaan bulata he.....m in a lot of pain....feels like m a stupid for loving him so much.... or abhi uski wife pregnant he....n mujhe bol raha he ki umeed karta hu ki tum mujhe samjhogi

inadilema · Answer

tum hi bolo yaar kya samjhu is sab se me

senorita2 · Answer

ooo

inadilema · Answer

lag raha he pata nhi kab kisko mene itna pareshaan Kia tha jo ye sab ho raha he mere saath

senorita2 · Answer

mtlb his wife is pregnant u have to accept it he is not a good guy for u

senorita2 · Answer

nhi yrrr kya age h tumhari

senorita2 · Answer

or abhi to bohot options bhi h tumhare pass

senorita2 · Answer

mere jese nhi fasi ho

inadilema · Answer

mujhe sab kuch pata he....but jab wo mujhe msg karta he me khud konrok nahi pati usse baat karne se......n also uska kuch na kuch prob hua hota he.... mostly accidents. wo 7-8 din baad msg karega.....ye uska constant torture he merelie....n bolega ki accident ho gaya tha aur mere gusse ke wajah se hua

inadilema · Answer

mujhe abhi boys se hi Darr lagne laga he..... esa lag raha he boys matlabi hi hote he.....patanhi kon wo lucky grls he jinko achhe dedicated boys milte he....me to definitely wo nhi hu

inadilema · Answer

tum apne child ke bare me socho......n kisi professional therapist se milo.....i think they can suggest you something better

senorita2 · Answer

nhi ja sakti bcz I am fully dependent upon him

senorita2 · Answer

can we talk on call

senorita2 · Answer

I really want to talk some one

senorita2 · Answer

u don't want, its ok

senorita2 · Answer

bt please don't stop massaging

Mysterio · Answer

@inadilema i completely disagree that 'boys matlabi ho hote he'.I am in a relationship with a girl for 5 years, and i love her till now also but now she is telling me she don't love me anymore.Now i am laughing on myself.

senorita2 · Answer

koi bta Sakta h k mujhe kya krna chahiye

Mysterio · Answer

Aap Job karti ho...??

inadilema · Answer

sry thode kaam me bzy thi

senorita2 · Answer

nhi Katie job

senorita2 · Answer

ok ab ho gai free

Mysterio · Answer

I have read all you comments. and come to a conclusion that you should MOVE ON but until and unless tum independent nahee ho jati you cannot do that...right...??

senorita2 · Answer

mtlb jb tk me independent nhi ho jati tb tk mujhe koi decision nhi lena chahiye

senorita2 · Answer

hey inadilema where are you

inadilema · Answer

ya...m here

Mysterio · Answer

tum he socho naah...kisi ke uppar dependent rahaya kar tum apna decision kise logi...tumhe 100 log'o se permission and approval Lana k baad wo decision apply hota hay.agar tum independent hoti tooh tumhe koi kaam karne se pahle kisi se puch'naa nahee parta.because you already know it the thing what are you doing is good and right for you and don't need anyones approval..

senorita2 · Answer

tum ab bhi bf se baat krti ho

inadilema · Answer

free to pura nahi Hui hu....bolo aap log....me reply karungi....isme thikse msgs ka pata nhi chal raha

inadilema · Answer

ya....baat karti hu.... par hamara hamesa se hi bahar kam baat hoti he

senorita2 · Answer

yess mysterio ur right

inadilema · Answer

more than 2 yr ka relationship he dekha jae to.....but use mere bare me itna kuch pata nhi he....long distance relationship bhi he hamara...so....we barely meet

inadilema · Answer

n wo bhi 1-2hr ke lie

senorita2 · Answer

bt jb tk ye sb chize bardash kese karu

senorita2 · Answer

kese deal karu jo mujhe uske cheats ka batate h

senorita2 · Answer

inadilema u should not to talk with him

Mysterio · Answer

@senorita2 aj tum ek vent session join karna ok..ussay baihtar koi jagah nahee baat karne ko inn sub matter meeh .

senorita2 · Answer

vo aage chal kr tumhe cheat kare usse achha tum isse jaldi kud ko bcha lo

inadilema · Answer

mere hisab se tumhe us grl se milna chahiye n aramse baat karke sab kuch Clear karna chahiye. or tumhe bahar strong Banna padega

senorita2 · Answer

kb h sessions

senorita2 · Answer

ok i will  try

inadilema · Answer

I am trying not to talk to him.....pr 7-8 days baad i feel restless and khudko kuch kar dene ka mann karta he or uski saari galatiyan bhul ke use maaf kar deti hu n baat kar leti hu...fir 1-2 din baad sme chije repeat hota he

inadilema · Answer

mujhe samajh me nhi aa raha khudko usse baat karne se kese roku

Mysterio · Answer

#6PM #8PM #9PM and 10PM join any session and tell all you problems, they will give you better suggestion than us.

senorita2 · Answer

ok ap bhi rahoge session me

senorita2 · Answer

inadilema aj khud ko is problem me daal lo to kl ki badi problem se bch jaogi

Mysterio · Answer

maay 6PM wala season attend karta hu generally.

senorita2 · Answer

hey mysterio ap ne khud ko kese sambhala

senorita2 · Answer

ok me bhi aa jaungi

Mysterio · Answer

it's hard to explain.but wo vent session helped me a lot.

Mysterio · Answer

Just Maine khud ko time deya heal karne k lya...

Mysterio · Answer

aksar may session attended karta tha tab. MaAm and iamhear team boohot help katay hay..

senorita2 · Answer

ek baat bataoge k abhi ka time kese nikala jaye bss ek example h k mere husband ki body pr mene love bites dekhe or puchha k kaha se aaye to kehne lga k tumne hi kiye tum bhul gai or ese hi hrr  chiz k liye ese hi  bolta h k poocho k iss lakdi ne tumhe ese msg kyu kaha to kehta galti se ho Gaya hoga or etc etc ese hi jhut bolta h pr mjjhe to pta h me ye kese tolerate karu

senorita2 · Answer

me padai kr rahi hu uske puri hone tk me divorce nhi le sakti or use chhod kr kahi ja bhi ni sakti pr jb tk kya karu how can I deal with him day n night both

Mysterio · Answer

tumne apne mind meeh ussay apna king of the herat ussy maan leya hol ab wo king k layak heey nahee jaay ya tumhay samajh naah hoga,ya tumhe koi nahee samjha samjha sakta sivaay tumhare.ek tum he ho jo ussay uss jagah par bitthaya ho ab uss jagah se ussay tum he uttar sakti ho.he don't deserve that seat...

Mysterio · Answer

hey @senorita2...how was your vent session...!!

senorita2 · Answer

mene nhi liya session kl se lung aj thoda busy schedule tha

senorita2 · Answer

kuch gest aa gye the

senorita2 · Answer

hey where are you both

inadilema · Answer

hi...

senorita2 · Answer

hello

senorita2 · Answer

how are you

senorita2 · Answer

inadilema

inadilema · Answer

m ok...how r u

senorita2 · Answer

not ok , my mind all time thinking that how can I protect my boy from her

senorita2 · Answer

he is living with me but he is not mine now

senorita2 · Answer

I am holding his whole house n he cheated on me

inadilema · Answer

it's really very painful

senorita2 · Answer

yess very

senorita2 · Answer

n i am not having way

inadilema · Answer

talk to him again about ur concern

inadilema · Answer

i talked to my person today and he told me ke wo itna bura nhi he me jitna use soch Rahi hu n agar mujhe prob ho rahi he to me usse baat na karu

senorita2 · Answer

I can't yrr jb bhi usse is bare me baat karti hu hamare beech ladai ho jati h or hmara relationship or kharab ho jata h

inadilema · Answer

par mujhe pata he 10-15 din baad wo fir mujhe msg karega

senorita2 · Answer

or tumhe usse reply nhi krna h

senorita2 · Answer

bcz its not having any future

inadilema · Answer

ek kaam karo tum atleast is month ke lie.......socho wo tumhe cheat nhi kar raha....tum bahar pyar kro use n sirf positive hi socho tum dono ke baare me.... mujhe lag raha he kuch na kuch badlao aaega usme

senorita2 · Answer

u should  lock him n move on with new friends

inadilema · Answer

ek month esa karke dekho....kya hota he

inadilema · Answer

mere koi frnds nhi he......ek tha achha frnd uske wajah se usse bhi baat band ho gai he

senorita2 · Answer

thanks yrr inadilema for your support

senorita2 · Answer

find friends

inadilema · Answer

u welcome dear....

senorita2 · Answer

n jb tk nhi bn rahe we are in contact,                   or vese bhi kisi k liye apni life hell mt banao u r not dependent on him

senorita2 · Answer

u just think u are so beautiful having beautiful heart, n be confident that u are the best

senorita2 · Answer

u know what, I am also not having any friends, that's why we're here

inadilema · Answer

hi senorita

inadilema · Answer

how are you

inadilema · Answer

how's everything going on

help me please

how do I change for the better?

difficult tym after breakup