why are you feeling lonely as you are in a relationship? is the other person is not giving you time or efforts?
he cheated me and not accepting
he says nothing like that
please talk n tell me something
how do you know he cheated you? if you have any proof then show him and ask abt that. have a proper and clear communication.
yes a lot of proof
but he tells me that's not his or her
he tell me thay are just friends
and when I ask for her massages he tell me by mistake shend him and he always making accuses
and u know I am badly stuck with him bcz I marry with him n also pregnant and no body knows that things
I was having beautiful life of 5 years
tell him to break his friendship with that grl
as it's affecting you a lot
talk to that girl too and tell her to stay away from your husband. talk fst in a normal n positive and calm way.
I am telling him alot of time he is not breaking his friendship
then talk to that girl.
and he tell me not to talk about this Matter to anyone otherwise he left me he just tell u just live your life peacefully not interfere in my life I am not harming u any way but
I really want to die
its sure I am having no way
think about ur parents n also u hv a little one. I knw this type of thought wl come as m also having such situations. my bf also got married to sm1 else saying he had to fr his family n it's a long story.
ooo sorry 😞
u can tell me ur story too
still talk to that girl and confront your bf that as he's not doing it u were bound to do that
u know I'm feeling really lonely now n really want someone support
yes but I don't want to lose him in this situation
while he proposed me i told him about all my past but he hid everything from me. i asked him too.... still if didn't told me n not talking for few days is normal for him. nly pain is Der in my story. still I lv him a lot. he has not done anything for me still I don't know y i lv him so much and despite of wanting to go away from him I am finding myself unable to go away from him
is English is ur first language
can u understand hindi
hmm.....i knw losing is very difficult.
yes I understand hindi
bcz English is not my first language
hmm when we love someone truly we can easily addicted with them
kya apke bf ne before marriage apko bataya ya baad me
usne before mrg bataya par seriously nahi....mujhe laga wo mujhse gussa he isliye esa bol raha he
par marriage ka pic uske frnds ke account me dekhne ke baad mujhe confirm hua
me uske wp ,fb kisi bhi account me nahi hu..... bas uske dark period ki support system hu jo andhere me hi he
usne apni fst gf se mrg ki he....usne kaha usko mrg karna pada bcz uske parents ne force kia
wo mana kar sakta tha bcz uske paas job nhi tha us waqt ...... still he didn't
abhi tak usne mrg kyu Kia , kya majburi thi mujhe nahi pata....bcz hamari itni baat bhi nahi hoti he
wo bolta he wo forcefully uske saath he.....but mujhe nhi lagta... bcz usko wo care karta he,uska bday usko yaad hota he n mera nahi, usko my Jaan bulata he.....m in a lot of pain....feels like m a stupid for loving him so much.... or abhi uski wife pregnant he....n mujhe bol raha he ki umeed karta hu ki tum mujhe samjhogi
tum hi bolo yaar kya samjhu is sab se me
lag raha he pata nhi kab kisko mene itna pareshaan Kia tha jo ye sab ho raha he mere saath
mtlb his wife is pregnant u have to accept it he is not a good guy for u
nhi yrrr kya age h tumhari
or abhi to bohot options bhi h tumhare pass
mere jese nhi fasi ho
mujhe sab kuch pata he....but jab wo mujhe msg karta he me khud konrok nahi pati usse baat karne se......n also uska kuch na kuch prob hua hota he.... mostly accidents. wo 7-8 din baad msg karega.....ye uska constant torture he merelie....n bolega ki accident ho gaya tha aur mere gusse ke wajah se hua
mujhe abhi boys se hi Darr lagne laga he..... esa lag raha he boys matlabi hi hote he.....patanhi kon wo lucky grls he jinko achhe dedicated boys milte he....me to definitely wo nhi hu
tum apne child ke bare me socho......n kisi professional therapist se milo.....i think they can suggest you something better
nhi ja sakti bcz I am fully dependent upon him
can we talk on call
I really want to talk some one
u don't want, its ok
bt please don't stop massaging
@inadilema i completely disagree that "boys matlabi ho hote he".I am in a relationship with a girl for 5 years, and i love her till now also but now she is telling me she don't love me anymore.Now i am laughing on myself.
koi bta Sakta h k mujhe kya krna chahiye
Aap Job karti ho...??
sry thode kaam me bzy thi
nhi Katie job
ok ab ho gai free
I have read all you comments. and come to a conclusion that you should MOVE ON but until and unless tum independent nahee ho jati you cannot do that...right...??
mtlb jb tk me independent nhi ho jati tb tk mujhe koi decision nhi lena chahiye
hey inadilema where are you
tum he socho naah...kisi ke uppar dependent rahaya kar tum apna decision kise logi...tumhe 100 log'o se permission and approval Lana k baad wo decision apply hota hay.agar tum independent hoti tooh tumhe koi kaam karne se pahle kisi se puch'naa nahee parta.because you already know it the thing what are you doing is good and right for you and don't need anyones approval..
tum ab bhi bf se baat krti ho
free to pura nahi Hui hu....bolo aap log....me reply karungi....isme thikse msgs ka pata nhi chal raha
ya....baat karti hu.... par hamara hamesa se hi bahar kam baat hoti he
yess mysterio ur right
more than 2 yr ka relationship he dekha jae to.....but use mere bare me itna kuch pata nhi he....long distance relationship bhi he hamara...so....we barely meet
n wo bhi 1-2hr ke lie
bt jb tk ye sb chize bardash kese karu
kese deal karu jo mujhe uske cheats ka batate h
inadilema u should not to talk with him
@senorita2 aj tum ek vent session join karna ok..ussay baihtar koi jagah nahee baat karne ko inn sub matter meeh .
vo aage chal kr tumhe cheat kare usse achha tum isse jaldi kud ko bcha lo
mere hisab se tumhe us grl se milna chahiye n aramse baat karke sab kuch Clear karna chahiye. or tumhe bahar strong Banna padega
kb h sessions
ok i will try
I am trying not to talk to him.....pr 7-8 days baad i feel restless and khudko kuch kar dene ka mann karta he or uski saari galatiyan bhul ke use maaf kar deti hu n baat kar leti hu...fir 1-2 din baad sme chije repeat hota he
mujhe samajh me nhi aa raha khudko usse baat karne se kese roku
#6PM #8PM #9PM and 10PM join any session and tell all you problems, they will give you better suggestion than us.
ok ap bhi rahoge session me
inadilema aj khud ko is problem me daal lo to kl ki badi problem se bch jaogi
maay 6PM wala season attend karta hu generally.
hey mysterio ap ne khud ko kese sambhala
ok me bhi aa jaungi
it's hard to explain.but wo vent session helped me a lot.
Just Maine khud ko time deya heal karne k lya...
aksar may session attended karta tha tab. MaAm and iamhear team boohot help katay hay..
ek baat bataoge k abhi ka time kese nikala jaye bss ek example h k mere husband ki body pr mene love bites dekhe or puchha k kaha se aaye to kehne lga k tumne hi kiye tum bhul gai or ese hi hrr chiz k liye ese hi bolta h k poocho k iss lakdi ne tumhe ese msg kyu kaha to kehta galti se ho Gaya hoga or etc etc ese hi jhut bolta h pr mjjhe to pta h me ye kese tolerate karu
me padai kr rahi hu uske puri hone tk me divorce nhi le sakti or use chhod kr kahi ja bhi ni sakti pr jb tk kya karu how can I deal with him day n night both
tumne apne mind meeh ussay apna king of the herat ussy maan leya hol ab wo king k layak heey nahee jaay ya tumhay samajh naah hoga,ya tumhe koi nahee samjha samjha sakta sivaay tumhare.ek tum he ho jo ussay uss jagah par bitthaya ho ab uss jagah se ussay tum he uttar sakti ho.he don't deserve that seat...
hey @senorita2...how was your vent session...!!
mene nhi liya session kl se lung aj thoda busy schedule tha
kuch gest aa gye the
hey where are you both
how are you
m ok...how r u
not ok , my mind all time thinking that how can I protect my boy from her
he is living with me but he is not mine now
I am holding his whole house n he cheated on me
it's really very painful
n i am not having way
talk to him again about ur concern
i talked to my person today and he told me ke wo itna bura nhi he me jitna use soch Rahi hu n agar mujhe prob ho rahi he to me usse baat na karu
I can't yrr jb bhi usse is bare me baat karti hu hamare beech ladai ho jati h or hmara relationship or kharab ho jata h
par mujhe pata he 10-15 din baad wo fir mujhe msg karega
or tumhe usse reply nhi krna h
bcz its not having any future
ek kaam karo tum atleast is month ke lie.......socho wo tumhe cheat nhi kar raha....tum bahar pyar kro use n sirf positive hi socho tum dono ke baare me.... mujhe lag raha he kuch na kuch badlao aaega usme
u should lock him n move on with new friends
ek month esa karke dekho....kya hota he
mere koi frnds nhi he......ek tha achha frnd uske wajah se usse bhi baat band ho gai he
thanks yrr inadilema for your support
u welcome dear....
n jb tk nhi bn rahe we are in contact, or vese bhi kisi k liye apni life hell mt banao u r not dependent on him
u just think u are so beautiful having beautiful heart, n be confident that u are the best
u know what, I am also not having any friends, that's why we're here