During the lockdown my father was watching a lot of porn movies. He has started behaving weirdly with me after that. He brushes his fingers on my behind when walks past me, watches me get undressed in the bedroom key hole, keeps telling to bend down, keeps staring at my private parts. i told mom and confronted him so he started doing it even more. we sleep in the same room.. sometimes suddenly in the middle of the night he is standing next to my bed. All of this makes me feel disgusted.

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During the lockdown my father was watching a lot of porn movies. He has started behaving weirdly with me after that. He brushes his fingers on my behind when walks past me, watches me get undressed in the bedroom key hole, keeps telling to bend down, keeps staring at my private parts. i told mom and confronted him so he started doing it even more. we sleep in the same room.. sometimes suddenly in the middle of the night he is standing next to my bed. All of this makes me feel disgusted.

strangename · Answer

H@ly sht. I really don't know how I can help you. I mean I've never had one. Did you visit a specialist?

amazedTermite1 · Answer

this is to embarassing to share with anyone

amazedTermite1 · Answer

am sharing it here because all are strangers

amazedTermite1 · Answer

my father has a clean image outside and behaves differently at home.. so no one will believe me

amazedTermite1 · Answer

my mom does believe me as she has seen it

strangename · Answer

do u have the opportunity to go for the help with your mom? that's great that she believes u, but another thing is  what attitudes do u have with her? sorry for my engl

amazedTermite1 · Answer

do I need to visit a specialist. isn't it my father who needs help here

strangename · Answer

judging by his behavior, he doesn't feel guilty towards you and doesn't want to improve. I don't think that psychotherapy can help a person who doesn't  want help. but it can give you and your mom the opportunity and strength to get away from him. forgive me for speaking so directly.

amazedTermite1 · Answer

it's ok.. you're saying the truth

amazedTermite1 · Answer

i am on therapy for anxiety disorder and PTSD anyways

amazedTermite1 · Answer

will talk to my therapist.. it's actually very embarassing

strangename · Answer

does it help you? when I was there cause of my Ed therapy didn't help me.

amazedTermite1 · Answer

just imagine he knows my mental condition and still behaves like this

amazedTermite1 · Answer

not fully cured.. but can see a change

strangename · Answer

maybe this is the root of all problems?

strangename · Answer

I mean your father

amazedTermite1 · Answer

i didn't get you

strangename · Answer

sorry I didn't see your previous mess

amazedTermite1 · Answer

it's ok

strangename · Answer

where r u from?

amazedTermite1 · Answer

no personal details please 🙏

strangename · Answer

sorry sorry sorry

amazedTermite1 · Answer

it's ok dear

strangename · Answer

what's about your mood now?

amazedTermite1 · Answer

means?

strangename · Answer

how do u do? again sorry for my English my native is Russian so there's a huge difference

amazedTermite1 · Answer

am ok

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