hey, thanks for this...kinda confused n crazy...How are you

I'm good tell me more about urself

Well it's Wednesday....At a new job and am procrastinating cause somehow have become lazy...I literally love to work n so but now lazy

yeah u should try relaxing it will help

yup sometimes I overthink and kind aget bored..

what do think u should try to do some activities to divert ur mind from overthinking

yeah I do colour a lot, but you see the thing is married life isn't going well...it's all about his past, n arguments...He doesn't talk to my parents anymore, he lost his job cause of his depression from the past nad ever since have been paying the bills n taking care of everything...We are like best friends n nothing more but people ask about kids...how do I have kids when nothing is happening...I feel he is no more taking effort look for a job been 3 odd yrs..he does lot of support at house work while focus on career but he is too disciplined n i get to hear y am not keeping things the way they are and so on..How can ai not over think

see what I feel is when u become someone's present there past doesn't matter and every argument can come to conclusion u just need to understand each other points.. and u also need to understand that when someone lose thier job it becomes difficult for them they feel they are not good enough it start to make us depressed and we give up bt we need to support them and make them feel like they can do whatever they want we will support them no matter what u should try to talk it out with him and don't think about PPL what they say about kids first u need to be with each other and help each other to understand take ur tym ni need to rush and try to live with urself first

I agree with what you say...I never questioned about his past...but then he came in contact with her again a yr after the marriage... Ever since things haven't been the same for him...I understand it is difficult for him cause they were together for 10yrs n he supported her financially for academics, she broke up with him... but he isn't same the way he was after she came in contact...It's been 5 yrs since marriage n ever since he hasn't been working...Trust me he is very well qualified n had international exposure...dts y surprised he isn't one till now...I'm not bothered about kids...cause none of the relatives know what's going on...I want him to get better am not bothered about I can kinda take care of myself...and yeah all his stress comes in me...which is stressing me out...am used to being practical so am managing it..he isnt ..have had multiple candid talks with him...If he wants he can go with her...I'll do everything necessary... am alone but atleast they are in love why to separate them..

u should just say this to clearly what he want and how u feel no if no but just a straight forward talk which may help u

i did have n number of straight talks..but now am just going with the flow... focussing on my career and my furries

yeah it's a good thing to just do what is right for u no need to feel stressed just give ur best and focas on ur career....hope it helped