Men I trash (Sorry for saying this). Recently I met a guy on an anonymous app. We used to talk and were close friends. Suddenly he stopped talking to me because I refused to flirt with him and told that I won't be sending him any body pictures. This isn't the first guy who has done this to me. Recently another guy to stopped talking to me because of the same reason. I feel really low.

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TheCalmestopener · Answer

Chill. Not all men are same. Some just need a nice heart

lazyeland2 · Answer

bruhh all men are same

bearwiththickhead · Answer

why did you refuse to flirt with him, was he ugly

Sasha123 · Answer

What no. I have not even seen him. I don't know what he looks like.

bearwiththickhead · Answer

are you asexual then?

Sasha123 · Answer

Wtf? Seriously? You are asking that just because I said I didn't wanted to flirt? I'm not asexual. I didn't want to flirt because I wanted him to be my friend not boyfriend.

Vickey · Answer

Don't worry, U are safe from some bulshit

bearwiththickhead · Answer

so you wanted an online friend? For talking, sharing live events and other things?

bearwiththickhead · Answer

yes, I'm saying that because if a guy is flirting with you, he doesn't want to be your friend.

Vickey · Answer

Everyone wants some good friends, but Sasha123 is very unlucky in this matter

Sasha123 · Answer

Yes t wanted to just share everyday things. I feel really bad now. Why do I come across these gross people. I'm feeling really bad right now.

Vickey · Answer

don't worry, Go ahead and search other, because they are not suitable for u

Sasha123 · Answer

Thanks Vicky. Do you know how these kind of things makes me feel about men in general? I sometimes wonder if there are really good men? Cause in my life I've never met one. Not even my dad.

bearwiththickhead · Answer

no, you're being too naive. nobody wants to waste their time listening to what's going on in other persons life if there is nothing in it for them. maybe he wanted nudes in exchange for listening to your everyday things. it's not gross but quite practical. you tell me, how many people you meet everyday who selflessly want to help you, none. because its a pretence, people are not selfless.

Vickey · Answer

i understand ur feelings, Don't worry, u get a very sincere friend

Sasha123 · Answer

@bearwiththickhead I get what you are trying to say. But right now I'm really angry and frustrated.

TheCalmestopener · Answer

If u want, v can be friends...  If u don't mind..

bearwiththickhead · Answer

everything comes with a cost

Sasha123 · Answer

I guess so. This is why I don't trust anyone.

scornfulvenison2 · Answer

yes don't trust anyone... sometimes not even yourself...

bearwiththickhead · Answer

@scornfulvenison2 🦵🕳️

Vickey · Answer

Don't worry, Not alls are same, so go for some new friends

Sasha123 · Answer

Ok. Thanks guys for listening.

Vickey · Answer

most welcome, and beware from that types of people

scornfulvenison2 · Answer

@bearwiththickhead🦿🤫

Sasha123 · Answer

Sure Vickey

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