can anyone

Question

can anyone solve my problem.. Literally I have no problem but something is bothering me.. I have a boyfriend he is caring he helps me out in my work.. he is my senior I seek advice from him and he also loves me.. he says that but..... the problem is he doesn't talk to me romantically we used to talk only about work there is nothing which is our personal we used to talk about like at every evening and every night I feel alone coz.. there is no one I can talk I want love affection but I am alone left in my room.

khusha · Answer

i can understand...have you ever talk to him regarding this ?

fionaocurr8 · Answer

brkup with him

Lovelysoul · Answer

yes.. but he said I have no time

khusha · Answer

no time to talk ?

Lovelysoul · Answer

I can't break up with him I don't want I love him

numbnachos25 · Answer

text him what you wrote here....

Lovelysoul · Answer

yeah no time to talk.. he want to achieve his goal and he is trying hard and I appreciate it but I also want some time from from him.. a little time

alertlard9 · Answer

can you start? break the ice.. if then he feels comfortable then everything will be fine. but even after your initiative he doesn't reciprocate. ask him directly that there is more to this relationship than work.

DrRachelWanders · Answer

uh can start initiating a small time conversation like talk to him few minutes before going to bed,or having dinner etc.Ask him about his day and then just get back to your work.This will help uh guys build a communicative bond.And make uh feel less lonely.

Lovelysoul · Answer

I have already discussed with him but that time he is just like.. he doesn't wanna lose me also.. he said have patience

khusha · Answer

you should break up with him... you guys work together right ? go for a dinner with him and talk to him about this... say what you feel and what you expect

unknownspecimen · Answer

did u confess ur love, feelings to him

DrRachelWanders · Answer

if even this doesn't work,uh should genuinely reconsider the relationship

khusha · Answer

you should not*

Lovelysoul · Answer

dinner.. he will not come

khusha · Answer

you're correct in this... you can start do some lovely things for him and see his reaction

Lovelysoul · Answer

yes I have confessed my feelings

unknownspecimen · Answer

if he really wants u he would definitely time or atleast he will tell any confirmations to not lose u.

Lovelysoul · Answer

like what can I do for him.. I seriously want him in my life I love him a lot and I want to spend my whole life with him only

khusha · Answer

play some good game, go to a peaceful place also you can cook something for him... Ghar se banake lekar jao kuch special

unknownspecimen · Answer

seriously u have to tell him directly what all u want from him.  Atleast he may have any answer.

Lovelysoul · Answer

yeah.. he confessed me that he loves me and don't wanna lose me... but I need his time.. a little time to talk which I am not getting that's why I am stressed

Lovelysoul · Answer

the problem is he will not come if I wanna go somewhere with him

khusha · Answer

any specific reason ?

Lovelysoul · Answer

I seriously don't know

khusha · Answer

ask him why ? or give me one more answer ...he let you talk to other guys in office ?

Lovelysoul · Answer

no.. he can't see that.. if I talk to another guy

Lovelysoul · Answer

I am totally hanged.. I don't know what to do..

unknownspecimen · Answer

if he really loves u and finds no time to spend with u,  then he won't find time for the rest of ur life..     i think there is no proper verbal communication btwn u guys.  pls talk openly. otherwise don't expect to lead ur life mutually

Lovelysoul · Answer

u r right.. there is no communication at all about relationship about future there is nothing

unknownspecimen · Answer

try to ask him what all u have in ur mind and get clarify so that u both can feel normal.   if he doesn't find time,  convince in any way and tell him completely. No boy will lose the loved ones. u have to keep on trying

khusha · Answer

try to understand him as well... if you guys love each other try to talk openly .... there is no other way

Lovelysoul · Answer

he doesn't share any problem with me I know something wrong is going on in his life.. he said he has many problems and he can't give me a good life but I seriously don't want anything from him I love him and I want him only

Lovelysoul · Answer

I have discussed everything with him like what I feel what I want.. he said have patience.. with time everything will be ok

Lovelysoul · Answer

it's hard to get him.. I feel like I am lacking something

khusha · Answer

tell him what you feel ... ok start with this ... believe me it will work ...write a letter for him and a rose or chocolate maybe and tell him everything...and just ask one question... i care for you because you're important to me ... if you think that I'm important to you then talk to me and give me some time...

Lovelysoul · Answer

OK tqsm.. I'll definitely try

Lovelysoul · Answer

thnx to all.. you guys are really great.. thnq thnq thnq thnq soooooo much

khusha · Answer

most welcome beautiful, don't worry everything will be fine

Lovelysoul · Answer

I hope so😍

Shreya12 · Answer

yaar pls don't do this.. why running behind something that is not there ? It's ok to not have romantic love in life ... it's not the essential need.

Shreya12 · Answer

you will only reduce your value by going behind someone else.

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?