can be smashed but not loved

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i can't feel lovable. like ik i look good i look 'hot' but i never feel like anyone can ever LOVE me the way i love them. like no one will ever get happy by just the thought of me or something like that.

adoringhawk7 · Answer

what made u think like that

adoringhawk7 · Answer

you wanna talk about it ??

skylar · Answer

why do u think u r unlovable?

itsmeheyyy · Answer

i would like to talk about it. there used to be a time when i even hated my physical appearance but thankfully i got myself out of that. but i feel lonely. i had friends whom i loved so much but they ended up leaving me alone. my sister ran away for many reasons and i think she didn't love me too. i love people so much and give them all i have but never receive any of it in return. everybody does this. i feel like something is wrong with me. i feel so lonely

skylar · Answer

why did u hate ur physical appearance so much?

itsmeheyyy · Answer

i just felt insecure and didn't think i looked good but that's not at all a problem anymore. now ik that i look good. i just don't know if i am a lovable person. i am insecure about my personality

skylar · Answer

not trying to be rude or anything, but you need to consider this qes like you said you know you know u look good,on what parameters did u decide that u look good? believe it or not looks and personality + self image + self love = self respect (the one where you respect urself) are all interconnected.

skylar · Answer

no one is born unlovable, itmeheyy. it's just people who judge and decide who to like or dislike, love or hate.

itsmeheyyy · Answer

i think physically i am appealing to the eyes. yk 'aesthetically pleasing'. but i feel like i easily annoy people and just don't feel like a person people like to make deep connections with and i feel like idk myself. i have been trying to get to know me but i always end up blank. it feels like getting to know a stranger who forgot everything about themselves.

adoringhawk7 · Answer

@itsmeheyy it may not be true.. if people are leaving coz of ur true nature then that just means they are not the one for you..

hjmmyu · Answer

Wht is this

skylar · Answer

@itmeheyy - why do u think u annoy people?

cockylizard3 · Answer

hey dude

Frustrating

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help me please