Then I would recommend to stop talking to them for a while. I know that you would feel the urge to stop talking to them, but you have to try. Also, if they want to start a conversation, tell them that you need some time to move on. It is because if you keep on talking to them, you would get your hopes high, that maybe you can again end up with that person. But if you really want to move on, then this thinking can stop you from moving on. So, for now, as you cannot avoid that person's presence, atleast stop talking to them.
SamTsui
What do you think?
sam1212
I tired this I can't
SamTsui
Then, can you try to change your environment (school/job).....?
SamTsui
Because moving on while talking to and being in contact with your ex would be very tiresome and exhausting.....as far as I know
sam1212
we live in the same colony i have to see him daily my family is good friends with him he comes home and acts like nothing happened
SamTsui
Ahh.....that must be soooo difficult for you. I cannot even imagine how weird and exhausting that situation would be for you. Do you parents knew about your relationship? Also, are you in school, as you are staying at your home?
sam1212
they didn't know about this n m in degree
jubilantmandrill3
First you have to make someone else your strength. Find a friend, find a good group so that yoh can say...that you dont need him anymore. Remind yourself that each one of us are humans but we cant hurt each other and he did that to you. Its time to leave, and travel elsewhere...different place...differnet people. This time good ones.... get me? You need to mentally find something else to focus on, and then move on slowly