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oyeeee chomu! itna bhi kya hai... learn to let go peep in your life samjha na moreover caring about somebody who doesn't give a fuck about you n is happy in her own world so why to waste tears for her... come on champ... you don't have to suffer this much cheer up! have a look around more good humans here... life is long give yourself a break.... give time to yourself spend some time w your closed ones sb theek ho jygi or if you are into writing jst write all the shit n tear it or burn it.. calm down :) you don't need anybody to be happy n yourself okay dude... have a good day

Breakups can be really heartbreaking.. Especially if the other person is easy going it hurts more.. I already felt..it . 16months isn't less but that's life.. It shows how much she valued you looking at how fast she moved on.. It will take some time.. but don't try to think of her. When it happened to me , I deleted all of my bfs photos his videos and any kind of media from his side. And I Uninstalled social media for about 4..5months. I didn't want to have contact with anyone either. I suffered from severe stress and anxiety and lost most of my health. Just give yourself time. Memories will keep troubling you but we should start taking control over them. Do something new.. try expressing yourself more.. let your emotions out.. I started exercising and reading more books to get myself out of his thoughts.. it is hard.. but you can do this.. It's time to let go of someone who doesn't even care to think about you anymore.. let it go..

I don't feel like taking to anyone.. Aisa lgta hai koi hai hi nhi baat krne , got a constant feeling ki log judge krenge . My friends are super supportive but unhe bhi btane me darr lg rha hai. I got a good job,very nice package but still I am not happy and I can't act sad infront of my family and loved once because I don't want to hurt them ..to kisi ko meri is situation ke baare me pta hi nhi hai

See it's not about what people around you think right. What's wrong in telling it out. Isn't this your life ? will it change if others speak something or just say something ? And you loved her with all of your heart and it's her who moved on without giving a thing about you..right !? So why are you afraid to tell it out. You are the brave one here trying to heal.. You have a good status and a family to be with. They have every right to know and also don't think negatively. Family is always there only because we can share things openly. If they are an understanding one then you can go ahead and share with them. Same goes if your friends are supportive then make a move. Sharing it and letting it out will make you feel better. So go ahead with it. Don't be scared. I am sure you are gonna meet someone who loved you more than anyone who has ever loved you. I hope you heal soon.

we had a chat few days back after 7 months just to know whether she had moved on or not and she did like right away after breaking up with me .Now while talking she asked me to be friends ,i just said ok on a chat and she said you can call me anytime to talk, it sounded like a favour to me not a genuine concern or it doesn't seem like she wants to be friends in those messages . so what you guys suggest should I go ahead and accept that or it will be a bad move.... and even if I accepted her as a friend, should I initiate the conversation or let her do that

I don't think you should get back with her even if it is as her friend. Someone who broke your heart so easily should never be even close to us. And speaking with her might trigger your old memories back. If you feel you really want to talk to her and you are fine with her being as your friend. Then go for it. But don't make your texts to her sound as if you are concerned. What she did wasn't any petty thing for you to be concerned about her back again. Even if she is a friend.

In my opinion you should let go of her. Remember what she did.. she left you and now she is acting like an ehsaan faramosh. You're better than that. If you have even the tiniest shred of self respect, let her go. Hang out with your friends, share your woes with them, they'll understand. You cannot be stuck with her memories forever. You gotta get back out there.. not necessarily into another relationship, but start loving yourself, do fun activities, stop monitoring her activities on social media, etc. You can do it, you can move on. Life is short, make the most of it. Don't spoil your days and nights for someone who hardly gives a damn about you or your well being

this is the only reason I was not talking to her from past 7 months because of the self respect...but Raha nhi gya and i thought maybe I have to ask if she is also feeling the same and waiting for my message ..but when I asked she straight away said ki she did moved on, and now I am feeling more miserable, but feeling good atleast i will not wait for her now and sort out my life ...just want to make the life sorted as quickly as possible because nothing excites me now a days , and i am unable to enjoy small happiness with my family ,and sometimes gets cranky as well but just acting around them of being okay...

It's good that you have made up your mind to move on .. Now start afresh with a new beam of positivity and fall in love with yourself in the process.. Do fun activities and enjoy the smallest things in life...

thank you so much guys for making me feel better and clearing my thought process a little..ill try to be strong and get rid of it asap 😊