Maybe he cares for your safety

i dont think he does, i have a sister, she's younger and she's allowed to do literally everything. I'm a girl too.

right now u r not in the stage of understanding his concern but when u grow up u will automatically realise his concern...

@rudrani, im assuming ur from india, so am i, look i dont think its cuz of my safety, my dad started disliking me when i was in 9th grade, afterwards, he just started saying no to everything i did and not justifying even one of it.

hey, I understand how it can get when it comes to our indian dads, but what did u ask permission for? it depends... also if u r oldest they are more strict on u, its unfair how people justify everything they do as safety and concern

you know, some parents are automatically terrible. you never can understand them. they're partial to one and not the other. I think, talking to them would help. Now, if they don't want to communicate and still use the excuse of "cuz I said so". you can't do anything. but, what you can do is try your very best to move out. not run away, move out. with your own money. you study and get a scholarship somewhere far maybe. something. whatever you can do. that's what I'm trying to do.

i asked to go to a party, its a house party and i told them I'll share the location, i even gave them the contact numbers of everyone showing up.

my dad comes us with irrational conclusion, he thinks ill just leave me phone at the house and go somewhere else i even told him they can facetime me whenever they wanna but i just dont get why he still wants to be so irrational