Hi guys. So I have a sister. I always listen to everything she says, gets excited about things she's enthusiastic about and listen to all stories she tells even if im not interested. But whenever i talk about something i like, she acts really uninterested, so much that I don't talk myself. whenever i tell her about my issues, she says 'oh that happened to me too!' and continues with hers. i dont have an issue knowing her issues but can't it be about me for once? is it a competition to her? idk what to do. thank you for reading 🦋💫

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alertchile0 · Answer

She is not the person you should talk to. Rightnow she is not mature or fulfilled enough to listen or try to understand others

pacifiedcaribou9 · Answer

maybe idk she's older than me though. and we've been through pretty much same things too in life but yeah you're right :)

dejectedgelding0 · Answer

once tell her that u have this problem with her and she should listen to u also

pacifiedcaribou9 · Answer

I am too scared. i am scared she will never talk to me like she does rn (even if it's pretend)bcz it feels good to have an excuse for myself that i have someone to talk to

dejectedgelding0 · Answer

is she ur real sister

dejectedgelding0 · Answer

sorry but its imp

pacifiedcaribou9 · Answer

No she's cousin but we're kinda close

dejectedgelding0 · Answer

Stop listening to these people, u will have feelings that she may go and there will be no one but trust me i have gone through this,its difficult to let people go, but to put efforts in these kind of people is not worth at all. u will feel good after doing tjis

dejectedgelding0 · Answer

this

pacifiedcaribou9 · Answer

I will try... thank you so much💟 also hope you're better with whatever you're going through too... 🥀💞🦋

dejectedgelding0 · Answer

if i helped u then its worth my time

pacifiedcaribou9 · Answer

you did🥰 it's awesome to have another opinion and from someone who has been through a similar situation

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?