Isn't it great that we can talk here and share our problems without the fear of getting judged.
crazyhelga
@aloofshads6 what happened?
aloofshads6
it's my friend. I've considered him my best frnd (he called me that too) and he has done better bondings with others (people whom he met after he met me- new people)
crazyhelga
@aloofshads6 are you currently in online friendship or?
aloofshads6
offline, purely offline
aloofshads6
he's in my class and lives 2 kms away
crazyhelga
oh, I think sometimes people changes, it hurts a lot, we loose control over ourself, but we can't do anything about it may be,
aloofshads6
I don't know what to do. because he still puts in a lot of efforts for me (tbh more than before) but just does more for the others
crazyhelga
if he wants to be with you, then its fine. we can't force anyone just to be only with us i think. if he is trying, it means he really wants you.
aloofshads6
@crazyhelga, how's your life going?
aloofshads6
ever been in a friendship where u r attached with someone so much that your mood depends on their behavior towards u.
crazyhelga
yes i had one such friend when i was in class 9th, I used to kind off like him, but he was my very good friend, our bond was so good, we use to laugh always in the class even if the teacher use to scold us, but then suddenly one day everything changed, same as you, he found mew friends, but he never tried to make any connection with us, and we don't talk anymore. but you are lucky, your friend is trying.
aloofshads6
yep mine divides his time. but idk I'm not happy.
aloofshads6
idk why I need to have more than everyone
crazyhelga
it's ok, you will also get involved with more people with time.
aloofshads6
yepp ik but I'm a little introvert yk. I talk less. that's what I think is the major problem in our friendship he's a talker and I don't talk a lot in real life (on phone im a chatterbox)
crazyhelga
even I am also an introvert , but now i have a lot of friends and rela friends.
johndoe1998
hey... try to make online friends too. I have some online friends now