It's ok. It's not your fault. Don't blame yourself. I hope you've cut off from her though.

firstly i hope you have already broken up?

yes i have already broken up with her. and I've cut off everything from her. But the guy she is with right now is ny friend who lives right beside me. And ill have to face her somehow

i don't know what to do, where to go n whom to reach out to. i feel anxious n helpless. Im trying to move on but it just gets too difficult

Don't bother about it. She should be ashamed of facing you. She did you wrong. Even if she comes in front of you, act as if you don't care. She cheated on you! And spilled your secrets. She has shown her true colours and her real side. Let her be. Ignore her

Indulge in activities that interest you, such as music, hanging out with friends, watching series/movies, photography. Keep your mind occupied and think as less of her as possible. everytime you think of her, remind yourself what she has done to you

my mother always says to me that a secret about yourself shoud only be known by you....otherwise its not a secret anymore. im not saying not to tell you partener secrets but it definately wouldnt hurt you to keep the ones that could to your self. and stay away from that trash. dont let anyone guilt you or make you feel bad vecause of what she has done. if anyone asks you just tell them the truth and shame her. if you have no one you have yourself. make good use of the free time you have now since she is no longer here.