cheated in a relationship

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I have been in a relationship for past 4months.This is my 2nd relationship. I have confessed everything to my current boyfriend about my sexual interactions happened with my ex.Now comming to the point I have seen some vulgar chats in my boyfriend's account with some girls.I want to question him about it but I'm afraid if he raises my point about the physical issue happend with my ex. But I can't digest this What he has chatted with other girls. What should I do , please help me out .

Sahitya-MG · Answer

Hi. Thankyou for reaching out. Vulnerabilities are shared to increase understanding and bonds in relationship. But vulnerabilities should not be used against you. Try asking your partner why he is doing like this. But if you feel your vulnerabilities might be used against you then stand up for yourself. Set a boundary saying that it's personal for you and shared because you trust him. And both situation are in different context

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