Cheated in marriage

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Just found out my husband who is also my best friend since 14 years is cheating on me. He has been lying about it and now I don't know what to do. He is the only person I've had in my life since I was 14. Now I am 32 and it's when I have known. I've invested everything in him and us and I just feel betrayed. I have no one in this world now and I just feel worthless. I need advice on how to approach all this because I am so broken

peskyChile2

18 Answers
blackfilter
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You are the only one who will make yourself the best, you have you. Talk the things out and if you want to end it, go for it because there is no point of trusting him even after being together for so many years. Or else if this is the first time, he accepts and apologizes, see if you can give him another chance
Zoya Ahmad
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Hey! I am sorry to hear that. I am sure it must be getting really difficult for you to deal with. I think you should try to give yourself some time to process this and then have control over your emotions, and assertively confront your partner. Who do you think can support you?
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peskyChile2
I have no one. He was my overall support
peskyChile2
I have been so stupid to depend on him all this time thinking he has my best interest at heart
blackfilter
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Have to tried to confront him regarding this ?
peskyChile2
He lies everytime even when there is proof. All these years he made me think I am crazy
peskyChile2
Twists things and when I confront him he makes me feel guilty for doing so and retaliates by passive aggression.
blackfilter
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It's the high time you go for Divorce dear, please don't hurt yourself anymore. Tell someone from your family and get done with it. Are you financially free ?
peskyChile2
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I am not financially free since I invested everything and took up loans for us. I have been supporting us since. Now I am left picking up the pieces and starting afresh. The car I am paying for it's in his name
peskyChile2
I feel so used and don't know where to start
peskyChile2
I can't even focus at work and all I want to do is quit and run away to somewhere else and just be alone
peskyChile2
I feel exhausted mentally, emotionally and physically
Zoya Ahmad
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If starting fresh is the only option then you should start. And live for yourself. You don’t deserve to be with such a man.
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peskyChile2
I have even forgotten how to live for myself and put myself first
blackfilter
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Please talk to any elder person like your mom or dad, and file for a divorce. You don't deserve this at all dear.
peskyChile2
Yes, I don't deserve this
blackfilter
3
You need to get stronger at this point of your life, you are strong and you can do this ! Have faith on yourself, we all are with you
peskyChile2
Thank you

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